Been staying at this HB10 apartment for almost 2 weeks, I was awsome and had lot of confidence, both she and her roomate liked me. After had sex twice I seem to have lost funny part of me and began to be very serious, asking questions to her because I know she is choosing between me and another guy. The point is that i sense i lost my attraction to her and i belive is because lately ive been feeling sad because of my insecurity about her and i dont know how to get out of this state of mind sending me thoughts about what she do when go out. Since i met her i knew my game was good and worked but now i feel lost if you know what i mean.

What i ask:
1) Am i losing my attraction? Why? How do i rebuild it?
2) Is this a fail in my inner game (the way am feeling and thougts)?

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sounds like you are falling in love with her and losing your personal power.....she's not looking to fall in love with you so she holds the power here and you're no longer interesting to her.....you need to end this immediately and regain whatever dignity you still have because it is over for you

It is called the 10 syndrome.

It works like this:

first your an AFC and you start learning and practicing pickup. If you are way below average frustrated chump (like I was in the past), you will be satisfied with even closing ugly girls, because you feel you learn to be succesfull.

After that, naturally, you will start looking for bigger challenges, 7, 8, 9es and 10s. Bear in mind that you are like a poor athlete on steroids. Its just outer game.

It happened to mee too. My first 10 lured me right into a big relationship trap. It was giving me lots of confidence in the beginning, but later I felt I wasnt being social and outgoing anymore.

Also in the beginning of the relationhsip, when we had lots of fun and went dancing and stuff. I would get opened and approached by women all the time. I just radiated something. After 8 months that dissapeared, and after another 6 we just had to break up.

My game has improved, but my innergame has te be completely reprogrammed. But its normal. Even Style in the Game has it with this Lisa girl. And eventually that didnt work out either. She even commented that he doesnt need all the silly outer game things.

If you want to solve this problem work on your inner game. Make sure you have 1. The financial prospects (job, business) 2. social circle (friends, clubs, cool hobbies) 3. and health (be fit, do exciting sports) that will make a 10 feel like she has a man of value.

I am working on this right now, and only practice my outer game for 1 night a week, just to keep it sharp. DHVing is easy and routines become second priority during the mid game.

I really hope this helps man. The first 10s really can mess you up mentally!

good luck

Buccaneer

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Good to know am not crazy! So you advice i should continue going out with her but instead if veung all the time with her, to concentrate more on my stuff like my salsa lessons, judo practices and hanging out with friends? Or should i just ignore her and continue? She was pretty honest and she said she only kissed that other guy she is knowing and me but not anymore, she only do it with me.... Not sure how to take that...

Those were two questions again lol

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I mean she said that today, after i didnt got to buy her all she want and DHV like hell andput her like before, laughed a lot and had fun... Just dont know if she is actually being sincere as part of her game or what...

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Hey superman,

thanx for the rp.

Answer nr 1. Yes! Make sure you have a life, and show that you are not throwing you whole schedule overboard for her.

Answer nr 2. Dont force her to choose or anything, but make sure that its clear that you also have other options, or are enjoying being single. Or else you will end up being second choiced or LJBF d.

greetz

Buccaneer

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