Heres a quick observation, in Ireland, where the girls are trying to emulate some sort of faux posh Jersey Shore persona, a new way of labelling men has arisen. Guys will just be thinsliced and labelled creeps while going about their daily business for no reason, among other things, theres a whole wave of negativity.

A few of my girl mates did this the other day while we were having coffee to a guy just picking up his mug at the counter looking in our general direction and I just felt so strongly about it, I excused myself and left the conversation abruptly right there. Its so assumptive its unreal. This myopic vision of men kind of puts you off Irish women it does me anyway. I prefer "foreign" women, depending on where there from they are more open minded. I know i may be a bit hypocritical here but as we say here "Ah Sure fuck it, were a nation of begrudgers."

Girls think they own are in charge of physical relationships, this is the way it has been seen in the past. But i'd like to to make a few points. A few points that will hopefully make you feel a bit better about this.

1. There is a bigger female population in the world and it is increasing, so technically you should have the pick of the women. If simple economic theory dictates, when supply increases. the price of goods and services offered decreases.

2. Women probably spend more time creeping facebook or microanalyzing men in a stalkerish way than you do. This is what i have seen in my experience. So dont feel bad about you being labelled, its probably personal guilt being expressed and thrown at another person.

3. You are a man, the dominant species, if a woman thinslices you, ignorance is the best policy as you are beating them effectively at your own game. Dont react with mallice or anger, always play them at their own games, as your game will only get better and people will see who the better person is.

Life may not always be full of success, but its how you handle your defeats or misgivings defines you as a person. You may look at some guys and say, that guy is so lucky. But when you realise luck is only a manefestation of random events occuring, and the more events or attempts you have the higher probabilty you have of succeeding. Create your opportunities and success will come.

Thats all of my random babblings for now.

Chat you all later

Being stereotyped hits a lot of guys. Some guys get it worse than others.

Having tight inner game makes a big difference. If you're centered in who you are, then someone else's opinion of you doesn't effect you.

The best reaction to a girl who blows you off for a dumb reason is "she never even bothered to find out how awesome I am." This is the natural subconscious reaction of someone who has a lot of confidence. It helps you to keep going when a girl is hostile for no reason. And it helps you to eject with no battle scars if they decide "this girl is just stupid".

Some guys overcompensate and start fighting a girl like an insecure idiot. It's much more powerful to not react. It shows you're not an idiot, and shows you're not a creep. If you can prove her "thinslice" wrong, her interest in you can rapidly increase.

I agree with you completely VC. Resilience in ones self is probably the most important thing needed by a man. With resilience comes belief and belief comes motivation and success.

Beliefs are ingrained in our modern cosmopolitan culture, yet a lot people believe what is there in front of them and just accept it, and mould themselves to a "harsh" reality. A lot of acceptance is devoid of thought and is in effect beta thinking. Being stronger and thinking about what you're morals are make you a stronger person. You fight for what you believe in. This is a characteristic that is the most significantly Alpha male of them all. It sets you apart from man eaters and show that you are a figurehead in society. What could be more attractive to a reasonable woman in my opinion?

It doesnt help that most women have been with men who are capable of great cruelty. Im not justifying thier views of men, Ive met women who are really cruel and i still love and respect women, its just a shame they see all men this way.

Anyone who's been with a girl who has a history of bad men in her life and you know how hard it is for them to open up to you and let thier guard down.

Yeah that can be a factor too pablo, but i think thats not the case, i think there is just an intolerable faux culture present SPAM, which including your point causes men to be unjustly depreciated.

The thing is that everybody is capable of intolerable cruelty and that threshold is being diminished by an ever increasing PC uniformed society. People are becoming more sensitive, more uniformed, more stuck into standardised thinking that devoids them of free thought. Thats the thing about attraction you need to be able to situationally aware, flexible, fresh and be willing to stand out even if it is sometimes to your detriment. How do you market yourself brashly to an offensive society that can be offended?

I think a lot of people are too caught up in the fact of base level thinking with game. What they see in front of them, to be a good poker player or good at any game according to game theory that every variable should be taken in account and understood in terms of effect it has on how you play and how they play.

Saying that culturally people are different, modern Irish culture is a strange manifestation to come to terms with. The Irish in general, including me sometimes, feign or do not like to display true emotion. In a sense what im really trying to gain insight to is how you mould your surroundings into your game. Im not talking about stereotyping,but there seems to have been a massive cultural shift in the last few years. Something which has detrimented but also been of fortune to me.

Somehow, I think of the old martial arts wisdom about the difference between a tiger and a dragon. A tiger is strong and fights ferociously. A dragon is so strong that they don't fight, for the damage they might cause.

It's probably the same with some of the archetypes of attractive men: the magnetic CEO, the loose rockstar, the witty salesman. Why would they get sad, or even angry when a girl blows them off? Why would they let one interaction affect them at all?

Be the dragon. When someone treats you like dirt, don't fight back. Just smile to yourself like "if they only knew how awesome I am."