Hey guys,

I thought of creating a thread on what bothers us guys the most when it comes
to confidence around women.

For me, it was a very bad case of AA, I couldn't even say Hi to a girl if you killed me.

What's yours biggest problem with women?

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I am lucky that I finally could get over AA with ladys.

Main problem now is that I put every single girl I like in a pedestal, I feel I`m inferior than those girls every single time, wich makes em unreachable inside my own head.

It`s like approaching for nothing, saying hi and starting a conversation is not an issue; seducing her is the step I can`t manage to pull.

On the other hand, I feel superior about the girls that are attracted to me and being obvious about it.

Main ego issues.

Like above, when a girl becomes into me (not if it's a ONL) and we talk often I feel superior and turnt off. So I do all the hard work of making them like me for me then to become disinterested in those that do. Strange. Ego I guess.

I'm always anxious about the sex part too, wonder how I'll perform.

Interested to see what others put, everybody has insecurities so there's no excuse for nobody taking part.

My thing is sometimes I still can't get away from being the nerdy, chubby shy kid I was back when I was a child.

Even though now I'm in my early 20s, studying a Business degree at a top Uni, in pretty OK shape, dress well, girls say I'm good looking...occasionally it all means nothing!

Thankfully I can usually break out of it but I guess our past always stays with us to an extent.

I'm just too awesome I dwarf everyone else.

I would have to say my emotional disability and having little money. Therefore not having a single article of clothing that would be presentable. Fear of being left in a bind, not having the money to even buy a shot for her, being looked at as a loner and the fear of if I do succeed, showing my confidence and pride in front of family members. That last one is my biggest, not wanting to include them in a new chapter of my life.

I'm probably the guy easier to AMOG you can imagine. I have no problems with girls when I'm one on one with them, but when you throw other guys into the mix I just get AMOG'd to hell and back, even when they are close friends of mine. They are able to take hold of the convo easily even if I have a really close relationship with the girl and I end up just shutting my mouth and looking at them interact, laughing at whatever may come up and talking to the fucking walls.

I'm pretty good when I'm only with guys in a group too. Mixing both in large quantities is fun aswel and easy to handle, but when we're only 3, two guys and one girl, I might aswel leave.