Evening fellas.

I just went day-gaming yesterday, with my goal of eliminating my fear of approaching. In short, I noticed that the real source of my inner game issue was my fear of judgement, and that really made me look socially retarded. But nevertheless, I got out of the whole thing alive and I'm happy to have gone through the experience, despite it being quite scary.

I believe that fear of judgement is what is really preventing most of us from making progress, especially because it stops us from expressing ourselves fully. When your fear of judgement issue is sorted out, I believe that the whole inner game issue is sorted out. Ever found yourself talking to a 9 and not being able to control what you were saying? That might have been your jear of judgement kicking in and you think "no don't say that, that's pathetic". When you're fully able to express yourselves, you feel free and good emotions are conveyed, and chicks feel that. Come to think of it, we know our family isn't judging us, for instance... whereas an unknown chick's judgement seems more important to us.

So enough talk, I would like to know anything you have to say about fear of judgement; and if you have personal stories or opinions or pieces of advice you'd like to share, you're more than welcome.

More useful for us all, what would be your pieces of advice when it comes to ELIMINATING fear of judgement?

Peace.

Very well said.
One night I arrived at a party black out drunk and a bit high. I was happy as fuck and didn't give a fuck what people thought of me. Within 30 seconds of walking in I had a 7 hanging all over me telling me I was cute, got her number then got 2 8's numbers and then a nine. All in 30 minutes and I don't even remember what I said.

Normally I am very self conscious and cautious how I act because I fear being judged. Wish I could get rid of this sober, girls won't approach me cause I look like I don't wanna be approached, which I sorta don't cause it causes me to feel anxious

You are on the right track here, friend. Fear of judgement does hold many of us back to some extent. To that, I will add that BELIEFS are the number one thing that holds us back.

The single best piece of advice I can give to everyone is to google Morty motherfucking Lefkoe. He has the answer to life, the universe and everything. Or you can read my post about the Lefkoe Method: who-wants-to-get-rid-of-approach-anxiety-vt126937.html

All fear comes from our beliefs. If you eliminate all of the beliefs that are causing your fear, the fear will disappear.