I have always been an introvert, I enjoy spending time with myself, I don't really like drinking and going to parties every weekend like so many of my peers, I do it on very rare occasions, I'm 19 years old btw.
My biggest concern right now, is that if a girl would date a guy like me? I always fear that when I meet a girl, she won't be with me because I'm not the guy that will take her to parties on weekends and quite frankly I don't have that many friends I hang out with.
How can I overcome this feeling? I want to give girls the fun they "deserve", but as I'm saying, the need for all that social stuff is not mutual :/

Sorry dude, but hot women like guys who are extroverted. Men who are extroverted appear confident and charming. Now if you want girls who are lonely as you, that's a possibility.

It depends on why you are a loner.

Loners who are alone because they are doing stuff nobody can keep up with or loners who dont want the company of others and have made a choice to be loners. Those can be attractive, inapproachable and stuff.

Loners who just cant get anyone to like them are just not attractive at all.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

The problem with being a loner is you don't get a good chance to display your attractive qualities. Social proof is quite powerful and with it you can cut thru the tedious "getting to know you" phase. This is why celebrities gat laid so much. Women know enough about them to want to have sex with them before ever meeting.

I'm a loner too. That doesn't mean I'm unattractive or have nothing a girl would want. The girls I have been with almost always come back for more so I must be doing something right. The hard part is, of course, starting as a random guy at zero and building all the way up.

You can bag a hot babe being loner. However, the chances of taking that relationship out of the bedroom will be slim to none. When she's out partying, she's gonna want to be with someone who's just as energetic and outgoing as she is.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

If not. Take steps to change it. Start with building up your ego.

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Like some have said here, I guess it depends which kind of "loner" you are:
The kind that is lonely because he is afraid of socializing and hence, doesn't has any friends.
Or the kind of loner that enjoys doing activities that most people can't keep up with, like extreme sports.
I guess it all depends, but like Mystery says, you act to attract a certain type of girl, so maybe you attract loners as well.

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I think lots of "loners" have got that sort of attitude where they don't care. You know, they are happy without your opinion on what they're doing. That's attractive. I think though that this sort of loner has still got to be able to be relatively sociable when in one on one situations and stuff like that. If you can't hold a conversation at all, then not many girls are going to be interested in you. but if you can talk to girls and make them comfortable, whilst still being that lone person interested in only what you're doing, then I think you can certainly make it work.