Alright so just a couple minutes ago my girlfriend broke up with me because she says Im a yes man. While I can agree it still fucking sucks to be called a fucking yes man. So im not gonna mope around and just accept that. Ima do something about it just dont know what yet to become a real man. Heres why ima yes man.

I haven't been in many relationships.
Im far to nice to her.
I always would fear shes gonna leave me.
Not sure what to say alot.
Cant really be myself around her because of some weird feelings inside me.

I feel more motivated than ever to do what ever it takes to become a real man. This really feels like a stepping stone in life.

Unfortunately, it sometimes takes break ups to get alot of us to change( including myself). Use those negative emotions you may have(anger, sadness, pain) as your driving force for positive change.
Good luck

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Definitely.. getting dumped sucks alot, but shit I realize you gotta play the game to become a better player. So thats exactly what im gonna do

Yeah dude.. Keep your chin up! Learn from it and that way you take positives from it.

I hear ya buddy.

A lot of guys are prone to sort of losing track of their own identity when in a relationship. The irony is, out of sheer love for their girlfriend they bend over backwards to please her, but it's exactly this conforming to her will which makes you unattractive.

This is a UNIQUE opportunity to explore your identity and really rediscover who you are. Take the time to fire up some new hobbies, get back in touch with those friends you were neglecting, hit the gym and set some high goals.

And when times get tough, ask yourself "Are you going to let this be the worst thing that ever happend to you, or the best thing?".

Good luck!

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Jesse Silverson
Break Up Advice Blogger
HowDoIGetOverHer.com

Hey buddy, notice the bad but do not dwell. Appreciate everything you have. I mean everything that you have. Those are good things. Look at them and be grateful. Look into some inner game to re develop confidence and self esteem.

Don't try to be someone else or some guru in the end just be the best version of yourself. Sure develop are character for pick up or whatever. But remember that is just a reflection of your new self.

Read the secret.
Watch videos on day game. And step out of your comfort zone.

Other then that just chill. Pick up is a good hobby. Look at it like that man.

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Don't forget the ones, that helped make me, the man I like becoming!

Fantastic attitude. You will do fine.

Dont allow this one incident to swing you to the other side of the fence and turn you into a stubbon, disagreeing prick.

So you agreed to everything she said to keep her and the reason she left you was because you agreed to everything.

^ This is quite an Irony. But you see what is happening - women dont respect men who don't have a mind of their own. If you have an opinion, a view, a belief learn to stand by it and politely disagree with the other person.

Most women want to see whether you have a passion, a drive, a goal in life, are you going somewhere, can you get somewhere in life.

its how we learn and evolve to be better.. now this doesn't mean you should try so hard next time you're with a girl to prove you're not this "yes man", its ok to say yes and its ok to say no, do what you feel like doing and grow some balls, shes with you for a reason and its not cus you're a puppet.

Thanks for all the advice. That breakup truly was a wake up call because I was dating a shone anyways. I found out a week later that while we was goin out she was sending a good amount of ppl naked pics of herself.

I'm now talking to a lot more girls than I ever was and I know for sure im not being a yes man cuz they all call me mean af.. but in that good way