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Ok so i'm typical 23 year old who has only kissed 2 girls in his life and never gone anywhere past a "date" stage...
There is this girl in college that i've gotten really close with and she was showing a lot of IoI's. We are both shy so it was hard getting anywhere with her or reacting. There was some kino, but I haven't even gotten a date with her (Even though I tried asking her out several times [almost from day 1 of knowing her]).
I am completely fine with the fact that I should move on - as long as I am away from her, but since she is in college and sitting right next to me I see her 3 days a week....
And I'm getting really fucked up and nervous because of it. I don't go out much and being in college at 23 after having my own personal training business fail makes me a bit depressed.
Well this is the bear bones of my story.
I was thinking I'm definately the type to benefit from Platinum Residential thing but don't have the money for it yet... I try to go out whenever i can with friends from college or work, but I tend to be quite isolated most of the time.
And because that girl showed some attention I suddenly feel that she is the one... ANd have my blood pressure 180 over 120 when she is around.. (yes I tested it lol)
I guess I'm looking for someone to relate to me in some way, or just make fun of me cos I'm just frustrated at this point!
Also any links to relevant topics that may help me will be appreciated!
Firstly, I'm no expert but I feel I can offer some advice.
I would say that before you go after this girl, you need to sort your social life out. As soon as you become more socially adapt then this girl may see you in a better light. She may feel she has to compete with your increased social status and will be more open to following your lead.
So to recap maybe you could try hanging out with some dudes. Get a few close friends that you can hang around with.. You say you are in college and being 23 is attractive to the younger girls. Join some clubs and search on here for College tips.
Good luck
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