I have experienced this weird phenomenon.

The nights where I am in no mood to talk to girls or have no intention to do so.
Even in day time, when I couldn't be arsed to shave myself.

But on those rare occasions, where I had a bad mood, couldn't be bothered to shave,
pick out a right set of clothes etc. Just grab anything out of the closet and put it on.
Even too lazy to do my shoe laces.

I then practically look half bum.

On those days girls show mad interest. WTF
It does not work when I try to replicate the effect.

What the hell is this?

Any similar stories?

YES! Actually happened to me today, didn`t even shower, shave, brush my hair. I put on the closest shirt and pants and went to the library. Got so much attention from girls I had to come back home to study for exams I was getting too distracted...

I live in that way every single day but I'm in a good mood and with good hygiene and clothing. It's far more effective and good for you.

"Generally", what's going on is that you're broadcasting that you don't need anything, you're just doing your own thing. This can happen when someone's really upset and they calm down by switching to "fark it" and then just going about whatever it is they want to do. They're not TRYING to be "fark it", they're just doing it.

This sort-of simulates, in a round-about way, a person who has all of their needs filled and those people are extremely magnetically attractive to women. This particular way will not work out for you well in the end because you'll tend to attract women who like lots of emotional drama going on so whenever you pop out of your "fark it" attitude and enjoy yourself they'll do something to put you back in "fark it" mood.

This is part of why jerks are so attractive to women who aren't very perceptive & experienced with men, they often have a "fark it" on mask but it's really just a mask to cover up arrogance.

Agree with yeah.

Something I clocked on to when I first got into all of this was how I acted on a day when I was really hungover.

I didn't give a crap, I'd get up, I was more funny (I thought because I cared less about what I was saying), and even if I was just walking to the shop to pick up some paracetomol I had a bit of a "I don't give a damn if you're looking at me strange because I'm a mess" swagger going on.

Now I'm not saying you should be in a constant state of drunkenness or hungover. Not one little bit, I don't drink much at all nowadays and if I do I make sure I get rehydrated and fed before I go to bed as I can't be doing with the hangovers any more (must be getting old!).

But what I did do, was try to replicate that state. I looked at things I did when I was hungover and in that frame of mind, how I acted, and most importantly, how I thought. Trying to adapt that to normal life isn't always easy to do, but I did it bit by bit and I think it has improved my personality a lot more as a result.

I think the effect you describe is the attitude you've got. If you don't care, you're not worried about anything, girls like that. In fact, everyone likes that regardless of gender!

bitches love it when u all nonchalant dont give a shit whatsup i live my life like an individualistic rockstar on cocaine and this makes me a badass attitude.

theres ur explanation broseidon

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