Hey guys,

So I am new to the site, and please forgive me if this is the wrong section to post this, but I am facing the following main problem in my Game:

To begin, I am a 19 year old college student enrolled in a very rigorous and time-consuming dual mayor. For this reason, during the semesters I tend to focus extremely on my studies, since I have a real strong drive to succeed academically. I guess I am an in closet nerd. So, parallel to this, I have a real bad tendency to progressively build down my social life.So, naturally, I deteriorate all the inner game I have built up during the summers, essentially leaving me where i started. Approach anxiety fully returns, frame control becomes difficult, and then I am not even talking about kino escalation.

Now, of course, as I again fully devote my time, my game becomes better, to the point I get very pleasing results. For example, last summer I had a couple full closes, kiss closes and lot of numbers. But, I feel that the constant cycling back and forth is significantly holding me back, preventing me from moving forward.


So, I dont know if my problem is purely because of my busy schedule, or because my inner game is not solid enough. Has anyone faced a similar problem with balancing the pickup lifestyle with academics or work? Any suggestions what to do?

Thank you very much already. Appreciate your help

Regards,

~ W.A.

Inner game is like a muscle, you need to keep training to keep it in good shape.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

All work and no play makes jack a dull boy.

I know how it is to throw yourself into studies. I would suggest that you schedule your time and make sure that there's plenty of time for you to go do something other than working on school.

Think about it for a while.....do you want to study so damned much that you end up in your 20s or even 30s without better social skills, or would you rather balance things out now and make sure you're getting both an education AND the social skills that you'll be able to use to leverage your education in the future?

A man with an education AND is developing better social skills is 10x more interesting to women than a man with just one of them.

Thanks on that man! Exactly the reason I came to the forum..dont wanna be some borring dude once i graduate. I guess the health, wealth, love triangle is truly right..one falls, the other once are inevitably dragged down as well

inner game in my opinion starts with loving yourself. no homo.

appreciation of the things and the talents you have and knowing that no one person is any better then any other person.

keep your chin up.

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