Tonight I feel inspired.

Prepare yourself for a topic as long the one Stormy did or even longer:

Its beginning to get to me that Im focusing on the wrong things about inner game rather than the one that really care.
What I mean is that tonight Im aware of the problems I try to solve and kind of constant punishment I apply to myself for not being good enough.

This is the center of the topic: you gotta accept who you really are.

Im aware now that at some values in life Im a weirdo, that simple. Im not a normal human being on what refers to some things as crimes, moral values, what I see as fun and other ppl see as creepy.

You have one goal in this forum: to score more ladys or perhaps even to get only one.

In order to achieve your goal you have to focus on the stuff that matters; that is: what you look for in a girl, what you aim for in a relationship, how you wanna build your lifestyle with that person next to you, etc.

As I was pointing out, you gotta admit at some point that you have some issues or flaws. Dont even think for a second you are special for having so, its a sick world full of sick ppl, you are one among others; but you are the one you care about.

So following that concept, you start building inner game from there; I think this is the first and the last step of inner game.

This is the starting point where you commit to yourself in order to change some things about your character, and the last step couse there is actually nothing beyond this.

You see, to me the fact that a person accepting themselves as who they naturally or really are its a change on itself.

Thats why naturals are so lovable, thats why its not the words you say, rather than how you say them.

In order for you to say things the way a natural does, you first need to have a profound believe inside that what you are saying is the truth for you.

When you go out and aim for meeting new girls; you first gotta ask yourself who are you really looking for; once you get that you get approach anxiety and you feel way inside your head, overanalyzing every single one of your thoughts.
If you are in that zone, a good exercise is rather focusing on other ppl instead of you, for example: you can start looking at interactions women have, items they wear, who leads and who follows, etc.

What I look for in a girl is the one who fully understands me and still loves me for who I am.
This means a woman who get to know the true me, the creepy parts too, and still love those accepting that you couldnt be the same you without those creepy parts.
It all makes a whole, your character, the one man that she loves.

In order for you to expose the true you, for showing to one person your deepest secrets, you first have to know what those secrets are; you gotta embrace the natural you and even thou proud is not the word Im looking for here, you gotta show it in your full potential.

That`s the real you, you have nothing else to hide in your shell apart from that, you expose yourself in the table and leave her with the choice.

I feel this at this moment, and I wanted to share with you couse after reading this, after dating a girl, after going to a party with your best pals; you gotta ask yourself: with the fake personality I show; who do I keep fooling the most?

In my case, Im the person I keep fooling the most.