I'm writing this post to help you guys take control of you mind. So that we can eliminate unhelpful thought processes. You see we should pay close attention to our thoughts, because they shape our view of reality, and therefore how we approach life.

If you are constantly negative in your thinking, then your outlook on life is probably going to be poor. Don't continue in this fashion. Instead of only seeing the negative, learn to look for the positive. All things are composed of positive and negative atoms, so all things have a good and bad.

The better your outlook on life, the happier you will be, and the more women you'll attract. They want to have a good time, and you can't give that to them in a bad mood.

Concise yes effective post Don Marjiuan.

I agree, you can be on the positive or negative train. It's entirely your choice which one you're on.

This is dangerous to our game, because if you feel negative about yourself, then you're going to subcommunicate that to the woman. And women, being the social creatures they are, can pick up on those negative vibes.

If you think highly of yourself, then you're going to realize that she is actually the lucky one to be meeting you. You are going to become selective, because so many women. You gotta weed out the lunies.

Do you think Bill Gates got rejected by women back when he was a nobody? Do you think they regret it now that the realize his value?

But the question is: how?

I like the topic, taking control is part of being a man; but how do you actually CONTROL those thoughts?
And by controlling the thoughts also the feelings, one is linked to another.

Im more positive than I was back at the day, but still some things make me doubt, and hesitation is what kills me, what brings me down.

How can you actually control all those negative thoughts that comes easyier than the positive ones? =)

Richard Bandler has a book on Reframing that you should check out. You could probably find the PDF on Google.

You can remove those thoughts that you're purposely placing there. When you tell your mind over and over that something MAKES YOU DOUBT then you're creating a reality where things CAN make you doubt which triggers hesitation.

ie: you'll telling your mind that something it can control CANNOT be controlled so it doesn't bother to do something it's been told isn't within its power.