| ill admit it, im an obsessive nerd when it came to pickup. Id spend hours reading and posting on PU, body language and sexuality, it became my obsession.
dont get me wrong, it works, i was getting laid grabbing numbers, sarging daily and it seemed like my entire lifestyle had been readjusted (clothing, hygiene, fitness, friends, music).
however, us younger guys gotta keep in mind that PU isnt everything. Personal growth and being ourselves has to be our utmost priority. I manged landing a girlfriend after less than a year studying the game (never been in a relationship before, and was just looking for a good lay honestly) implying a lot of what i learned into the relationship such as excitement, mystery, humor etc.
when it came down to the serious talk however, she brought up how i always had some "front" or "barrier" up and i was continuously a hard read. this didnt bother me at first, but after she moved i came to realize that being myself around her had been even harder than learning pickup itself.
im only 20 years old, but i find a lot of posters here around my age and are desperate for a quick fix to their women problems. pickup is a great way to change yourself for the better and learn from past mistakes, but we must not forget who we are as individuals and what makes us different from other artists in the field.
Take this advice for what you think it's worth and goodluck
cheers,
Dantonious
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