We all know what it is.

That feeling that makes you sometimes unstoppable and sometimes just good.

I learned about state long before i learned PUA. Already then i knew that just being in state can give u succes with girls.

Like Tyler Durden once sayd : ''When in state u can say ANYTHING.''

Now im already doing PUA for about a year but the world of state is still a big mystery for me. I know certain things can effect it.

And i see suprisingly not much post about this but let me put it this way.

What are the best things to get in STATE?


If anyone knows a great method for it or tips, i will be glad to read it.

greetings

It depends what state you want if you want the state of saying anything, that dosent always require solid innergame sometimes just a lot of alchohol and being high energy 'not give a fck'.
however if you want to display more of your individual personality for me a big part of it comes from loving and respecting yourself and it starts off before you get to the club,put the double wopper down and instead you choose to buy the wrap,take the rubbish out of your room,wash your car,no porn today etc.. and then when you see that girl at night you like you chat to her because your backing yourself you take care of yourself you have high value because you value yourself.

Strippers SELL state. Well, temporary state.

They're creating the illusion that you're valuable to women (on a superficial level). This is why it fades away and must be paid for again.

When you BECOME a valuable man for women on a deep level, you create this same state all on your own, whenever you please, and can bestow temporary state on others.

THAT'S the MAGNET.

Maybe using state shifting techniques like explained here? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZCSN8uXP-w

Sorry but why do some people here always have to automatically assume nightgame references? And what's the double whopper reference all about?

Yeah, Andy's video is good stuff.

Thing is though, "state" is not something that is out there in the world that you have to search for, find, grab etc.

State is internal. And it is also individual.

We all have our own neurons, brains, bodies, experiences, reference points, memories. We all generate and feel different states differently.

Consciously trying to create a state is a hiding to nothing. If you have approach anxiety, you don't sit there in the nightclub consciously trying to summon approach anxiety. It simply turns up and you feel it in seconds. Whether the cause is subconscious or not, the state of anxiety comes from the subconscious upwards.

You need a dialogue between your conscious and subconscious minds. What does being in state mean to you? How do you know when you're in that state where you're "unstoppable" with women?

One of the best things to do to get into state quickly is to use your memories.

I remember one time we were out and I was talking to my friend about the time when we hooked up with some really HB's.

In the process of describing this to him, I went into detail. I explained how I actually saw their face bright up when I was speaking with them, I was talking about how we started kissing and continued the escalation.

I was telling him about what body this girl had (at this point the guy felt like he was watching a porno movie, but I kept going) and how she slowly unzipped her dress.

Anyway, I told him everything and when I was done, I was hyped!

I felt awsome, everything I had in mind before just went away and my only memory was of that girl.

So this is a very useful technique to use when you want to get in state.

Before you go out, sit in your chair and take a piece of paper and write down how you hooked up with a girl the last time. And describe it in detail so you feel it.

Or you can pretend that you're talking to someone and you're describing it to him.

I don't recommend visualization of the last time because this might tie you to the outcome when you approach, but it can be useful.

So try this out and by the way, if you want to get the most powerful technique to raise your state quickly, use my technique called The Flip™. It took me 5 years to develop this and if you use it before you go out, you'll be calm, confident and sure of yourself.

To get it, click the link in my signature or send me a private message and I'll send it to you personally,

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Be careful with where you get your state from!

DO NOT rely on external sources to get state e.g a response from someone, your favourite song etc. If you do then you’re state WILL change if and when the environment changes. Getting state from the environment is what girls do!

Instead get state from your own memories (mentioned by Phantom) and actions. What I do is do something silly;if there’s a group in a circle on the dance floor I break into the circle and start dancing in the middle. I end up laughing and getting in state, and don't care about the groups response.

That's why women are much better at taking care of children.

Men (by default) don't pick up on emotional energy nearly as readily as women do.

Generating our own states creates strong masculine polarity and when it's SUPER strong, it's irresistibly attractive to strongly feminine women.

Wussy guys wonder why they get masculine women