Ok guys, here's my dilema, I started gaming last June and after having no luck with anything, game helped me through everything, I became a better person, more fun, more happy and much more successful but, now it's all just gone ?

I have no idea why but, oer the past 3 weeks, i have become so boring, it's nbearable even to myself, I look at myself and think, how do I have friends ? I have my days where things look up a little bit but, it always goes bak down again, I'm just so boring, I feel like when I'm out with my friends, I'm not adding any fun to what is happening, I just sit there quietly, even in school this happens, I just walk around with my friends listening to the conversation, not adding anything to it even when given the opportunity, which is quite often

My LTR isn't going anywhere, it's obvious that I'm boring her a lot and I have no idea how all of a sudden, I became like this so, how can I be myself again ? Not my former self but, my new self, the person I became and the personality traits I've developed since June are all going to shit, I can feel myself becomeing AFC again, what do I do ?

Quick replies would be so greatly appreciated guys, please help

Thanks,

Peace,

Troyden

Get some hobby to do in your freetime. Anything you enjoy. Sports, most preferably. And with your friends you have to be more active in the interactions. At least when given the chance please don't be a wussy and talk something interesting. It's not that hard, especially if you've been there now once. For your LTR, I don't know how you could bore a girl to death and she still stays with you. Perhaps it's you misjudging the situation(she's not bored), perhaps she doesn't want to talk about this for some reason... I don't know. It's your relationship. But for its sake you should at least stop putting this much pressure on yourself about being "not boring"

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Cool story.

You just told an interesting story about you being boring. Are you sure you're boring?

You've got one heck of a story about how you think things are going and how you think others are thinking about you. But who knows.

We all go through things and we all integrate things in different ways. You can't be a pick up artist all the time. You can't be in a good state all the time. You're a human being.

Now, if you think there might be something serious going on here then see a professional and or your doctor.

Otherwise, remember that you're so interesting that you can tell a great story about being boring. That's a good thing a person to be able to do. Maybe, just maybe...things will be good and how you want them to be again soon. It's just a suggestion.