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PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 9:23 am 
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Me = 19, Quite attractive, skinny (insecure of body, very skinny, hence the name and pretty sure it will never be able to become quite a big sized body due to my concave chest). Great style of clothes and good face. Soccer athletic and funny WHEN confident.

When am I confident. 2 days out of the week maybe give or take. I focus on the negatives. To be honest, this post is about how to fix being needy. I am the neediest guy and I like attention. Even drama. I watch soap operas and I love the idea of drama and everything. I don't know how to fix it. Sounds pretty gay I know.

I want to become less needy and more self dependent. Any ideas?

What was the best advice you received on this...

Ever since I broke up with my ex, I became something I dont like... unconfdient and my cockiness a cover for my insecurities


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I want to become less needy and more self dependent. Any ideas?

What was the best advice you received on this...

Ever since I broke up with my ex, I became something I dont like... unconfdient and my cockiness a cover for my insecurities
Find a new hobby or sport maybe you can interact with. That's a great way to build confidence through that. Understand there are always going to be a few things you are going to be self concious about. But you can gain confidence through other things that will aid you. The other thing is realizing that no matter how skinny you are, what you watch on TV, or anything else there is a girl out there for you. You just have to find her.

Being comfortable in your own skin takes some time and isn't the easiest thing in the world to do for those of us that it doesn't come natural to.

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