Alright guys,

First of all I am new to this community, read The Game and currently reading Mystery Method. I would consider myself to be quite good looking, I have slept with a lot of girls but I have never really been able to seduce a girl through any PU skills. All the girls I have been with have either came on to me or been introduced to me, I have never approached a stranger and succsesfully attracted her.

I lack confidence and self esteem. I lack this in all aspects of my life not just with girls. I need to work on my inner game and develop confidence. I am trying to lose 6 pounds which will put me in good shape and make me feel better when out. After reading Mystery Method I am going to work on developing my confidence thus benefitting my inner game. I firmly beleive that larning the PUA skills will benefit many other aspects of your life.

I too am good looking, and I don't think you need to read any of that stuff. It sounds really bad, but if you instantly see the girl as something sexual, and nothing else, picking her up will be really easy. You won't get weighed down by wondering what she wants or anything. You'll notice every sexual desire she has, and will be very easy to see what she wants.

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La Dolce Vita.

I was in the same position as you and since I was so used to having girls come to me instead of the other way around it actually backfired on me because It felt so wierd going up to a random girl and hitting on her. So I read every pua book I can find so i don't have to mess up before I get good like everyone else. Now I realize that the only way to get good is through trial and error, even if your good looking their are going to be some girls who just aren't interested, I don't know exactly what your dealing with but from my experience I would say never rely on your looks and go out to try this stuff before you become a PUA junkie. Good looks do help but it will back fire if you try to rely on that alone. Hope this helps.