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Bro but there has to be someone might have to follow in case i run out of things to say....and i cant remain who i am...coz who i am is not getting laid
.....patrick mentions a number of guys here...like vin dicarlo,zan perrion etc....and the problem is most gals dont stop to hear me say hello :p
Stay away from RSD. Cancer of the community. Really.
Stop listening to PUA bullshit that women have it better than men. They don't.
You really just have to get to know yourself on a deeper level. That's where it all starts.
You don't need gurus, you just need a clear head without the little voices inside that keep pushing you back.
Once you get to know yourself you can silence them and start appreciating the beauty of the world and enjoy every single second you live.
Why do you ran out of things to say? Do you have nothing to say, or are you afraid of saying what you really think and how you really feel? You're still focused on getting laid. It's clear from what you write. Drop this mindset. Drop this "I have to get laid to feel like a man" bullshit. You don't.
Eliminate this crap from your mind. And refuse to back down.
That is how you grow.
There are times when I sleep with a different girl every weekend. There also have been long periods like 6 months or more when I haven't even come close to sleeping with a woman. It makes no difference to me. I'm happy regardless. I focus on what is really important and walk my own journey. During that I will naturally encounter women and with some of them I will connect on a deeper level and with some of them I will not. In the end I remain the same happy person. The only thing that matters is that I stay true to myself. I won't go there to talk to that girl just to make myself feel better because "I have tried it today too". I also won't skip on the opportunity to talk to that other girl who seems very interesting to me. The outcome of that though is irrelevant. Again, the emphasys is on that I stay true to myself and I don't betray myself.
I can't really phrase it any better than this. Mack is a lot better at it, though if you have read all 9 pages then I think you somehow missed out on the important parts because of your bad focus on "how to get laid".
Not trying to be rude, just my observations.
Life is love.
Peace
In$tinct
woww bro thats one of the best posts ive read....and really motivating too....ive read all 9 pages lots of times instinct....some concepts i can understand and wanna internalise through meditation....but some concepts go over my head.....one and most important is honesty....patrick says to be honest with your dealings with women....but how much honesty is allowed??for me most honest would be a scenario where i just meet a girl on the street and tell her 'i wanna have sex with u tonight" not in a sleazy way,but a sincere unapologetic way.....im not afraid of the reaction from the girl,but i dnt wanna be charged with harassement either by the cops or beaten up by her brother or boyfriend...so thats one query.....second is vulnerability,i dnt fully get that concept,how different is neediness from vulnerability??if u or anyone can solve this stuff,would be really helpful
Your questions are as irrelevant as they can get, mate. The problem is not that you don't know the answer. The problem is WHY you don't know the answer. And no one can solve that but you.
What is neediness? What is vulnerability? Do you realise how broad these concepts are? What one girl would applaud and appreciate, another would think it is needy. I'm so fed up with this PUA crap that systematically brainwashes guys that all women work the same way, and you just have to push the correct buttons to manipulate them. It's all marketing crap nothing more, bro. In the real world, every girl is different and the only way to be successful with them is to build an honest connection with them. That is what honesty means. It's not that you open with "I want to fuck you so hard you will not walk for two weeks" Just that You don't crap around with stupid negs and DHV stories that never happened but you worked for hours on them to perfect it. It's bullshit. You tell her REAL things from your life, and you ASK what you want to know about her and LISTEN to what she is saying. That is how it is, all the flirting and other technical things are miniscule in the big picture. PUA can teach you that. However, it's 100% useless if you can't focus on the human being who's in front of you because your mind is preoccupied with counting IOIs, doing compliance tests, figuring out shit tests and all other useless bullshit.
You have to present the real you, not more not less. But now you're confused because you don't really know yourself. That is why Mack is telling you're not ready yet. How can you show the real you to her when even you don't know yourself? Of course you run out of things to say and don't know what to do because you don't even know what you want.
You have a huge chaos in your head. It's okay though. You will get there. Just drop all PUA crap. Drop it, really, I don't know how much you have studied PUA, but it doesn't matter anyway. Go out and meet people. Meet women, and for once, don't think about what you should say and what does she or her boyfriend think about you. MEET HER FOR THE SAKE OF MEETING HER.
Why is that so hard?(this is a real question, not trying to bully you. Answer it to yourself.)
And meditate. It helps. It really does.
Wish you the bests, my friend.
Peace,
In$tinct
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