so if you compare yourself to others and find that you have more dating value / social fitness, you lose confidence?

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

Try it. Don't just talk about it.

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The opposite.

If you compare yourself to others and you have less value.

Your confidence should be based on yourself, not by comparing yourself to the others. There will always be somebody more fit, better looking, richer, ecc, that doesn't mean necessarily they are better human beings and better for a woman.

i hear you, and you are right. but remember we're talking about women

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

"...remember we're talking about women." Okay? That means absolutely nothing.
As if women were some special section isolated from humanity and the world...
It sounds like you're just putting women on a pedestal for starters. Or you
don't understand them. And second beingyour own man is what women find attractive
in the first place. Whether you're better off than the other guy or worse is not the point.
The principle of comparison in and of itself a self defeating concept.

Understand the bigger picture and be your own man.
Not sure what you're trying to achieve by arguing about the need to compare.
That is ridiculous and self defeating. But if that's what's going to make you feel better
than go ahead. All the other guys looking to be good with women will do the opposite.

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

Every man already has everything he needs to be successful with women, it's just a matter of discovering it and beginning to apply it.

duhhh. thats why we're here

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right