I want to break out of my lifestyle and get back into PUA but I keep failing over and over.

I even paid £4000 for a bootcamp and afterwards it's gone back to the usual.

I think it's the social group I'm in as some are married and have girlfriends. I'm in the routine of my friends coming over every couple of nights and playing video games and when he does come over he does have his girlfriend with him.

The last week or 9 days or whatever while i've been off i feel like i've hardly done anything else other than play a video game (Halo ) and sleep. Of course I eat and I'm sometimes watching porn and stuff, hell I'm even considering sleeping with escorts and I have done that a couple of times in the past.

I keep going on online dating sites and seeing people I like and it upsets me sometimes as I see qualities I like and qualities that I could have and do have the potential to have.

Stuff like playing guitar, fitness, creative qualities like writing, arty stuff.

I know I need to meditation.

In fact there's so many positive things I could be doing but somehow I've just given up on all of them. I've done CBT before and will start doing it again in january. If for now anyones willing to help me on the phone or anything please private message me.

Go meet up some pick up dudes are on the same path. that is what this forum is for.

That way if you're accountable and osmosis comes into play. The reason why bootcamps work is because you've invested a bunch of money and you don't want to waste it by not getting stuck in.

Then, as soon as you get home, you back to the same chode routines/life, it's very common.

Meet some pick up dudes, take control of your life, sell your computer and use the money to buy some new sexy clothes. You're not sustaining the momentum from the bootcamp. Get it done.

p.s. Could you elaborate on this?

If commonalities were essential for seduction, I would still be a virgin. Girls might say they want that, but who wants a clone of themselves?

p.p.s Also, make a journal on this forum too and we can keep an eye on you.

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Just wondering should you give the poster a simpler assignment he could do and check back in with you at a later date and time?!

Wut?

Feel free to give your advice to the OP

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