Going out often, getting numbers but cant get girls out on a date? or get them on a date but cannot move further? Hit the plateau and dont know what to do?
The world is so complex that our brain isnt able to analyze 100% of information. It gets maybe 2-5% and everything else is reconstruction from your beliefs and experiences.
You build this reality for yourself and this is how the world works for you, you brain believes in it and only looks for confirmations, i.e. certain girls and situations which lead to the same plateau with flakes and rejections.
Show your brain the world has many other outcomes, or at least show it the outcome you desire to get. For this ideally you need a mentor or a professional coach who would show you where you stuck and the way to get out of there. If there isnt one around, just try something different. If you do the same thing all over again and expect different outcomes - its insanity.
When I watched the movies and saw guys there making out with girls in bars within minutes, I believed this was impossible in real life and done by Hollywood for your entertainment. Until one moment - when a girl kissed me at a bar (I actually wasn't believing it and thought it was some kind of shit test, so I literally was resisting her). After that moment I was making out every time I went out. Not only in bars, but even bus stops, busy intersections, book stores.
For me it just became a reality and I believe it cannot be another way.
Johnny Maddick, the Man, the Legend
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