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| BrandonMarshall | PostPosted: Wed Sep 10, 2014 12:51 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sun Sep 22, 2013 12:53 pm Posts: 576 Website: http://www.iNeverBehave.com Location: Baltimore | | Money, Power and Status... some people think money is the root of all evil... others think just if they got rich it would solve all of their problems... but it only amplifies your problems if you haven't mastered your mind yet.
Ray Rice had great athletic ability and mastered the position of running back. but he had gaping holes in his character that nobody knew about. If he was a normal guy this would be a normal situation... but since he had fame & success the cut is a lot deeper to his reputation.
I am confident that coaching men to be better versions of themselves is the ultimate solution to preventing domestic violence... and I'll get back to that thought it a second...
Helping men out with dating advice and the #ManOfExcellence movement has been amazing for the short period of time I've been doing this (it hasn't even been a year yet). It's great because women have followed the movement as well and has co-signed my ideas and supported me through this journey.
A lot of women reached out to me sending a message about a relationship they're in.. and there's an interesting pattern. In fact it's so similar that the women that messaged me will think I'm talking about their situation in particular but it's really the same story I've been getting over and over again.
boyfriend is suspected of being unfaithful... . but the woman feels he still loves her because he either plans to marry her or has proposed to her already. This isn't and act of love it's an act of insecurity and immaturity. They're out of control... they don't know shit about the psychology of women or attraction.... and they feel this is their only option to gain control in their lives.
Most men really don't have a clue... and it's a problem.
In most circumstances men end up in these situations with domestic violence because they can't control their emotions. They've allowed the woman to cross over too many of their boundaries (not the woman's fault... every human being will over step their boundaries if you let them) then it gets down to the boiling point where it ends up in an ugly situation.
So back to my regular point this is why my "Man Mindset Mastery" program is more than just picking up girls, getting a girlfriend or improving your dating life. It goes much deeper than that.
Anybody who thinks it's just about learning openers, pick up lines and the "new trick" is badly misinformed. And even if you do seduce a woman with a "trick" then you'll run into bigger problems later down the road.
How do I know? because I've been on the journey. I didn't just wake up one morning and say "Oh I think I'll help men with dating advice".
No I've been through it... I used to be insecure, jealous, not in control of my emotions and completely socially awkward. I've been in a toxic emotionally & physically abusive relationship where we've both hurt each other (I was just lucky it never escalated to a Ray Rice/ Chris Brown level)
I was fortunate enough to know I had to work on myself before ending up in a situation where I lost control of my emotions and damaged my reputation for a lifetime.
Who knows? If I didn't work on this part of my life at the age of 19 where would I be right now? I may be fresh out of a divorce losing half of everything I earned because I lost control of my emotions, beat my wife and tried to control her.
I could have been recovering from a serious drug addiction... or noticing serious health problems. Everything positive in my life came from a breakthrough after an extremely negative toxic relationship. It came from the girl leaving me for somebody else... and instead of continuing to put the blame on him or her I took responsibility to better myself.
You're either moving backwards or moving forward... if I didn't pay attention to my mindset I would have moved hundreds of steps backwards from age 19 - 27.
Luckily I took responsibility and worked on myself... became confident... developed healthy habits and built a healthy relationship with a woman that supports me through everything in a home where emotional or physical abuse is never welcomed.
I took a complete 180 in life.... and I really believe that it could have only gone this way or have been a complete disaster... nothing in between.
Are you investing in yourself?
Or is it just something that you'll get around to during the "perfect time".
The perfect time doesn't exist... the stars will never align and if you make it a pattern to put it off to constantly put it off til tomorrow years will pass you by and you'll wonder what the hell happened?
Invest in yourself before anything else.
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