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Had 8 years with this girl, I fucking miss her, still have feelings for her even when she dumped me to sleep with another guy. I did the same shit to her in the past and she forgave me but not at all. I feel like a less man
So its kinda hard for me to go out and talk to girls, Ive been opening groups and one-one girls , Im still hurt for the break up.
Not to be rude but she dumped you for a reason. She lost attraction toward you somehow, and it was your job to maintain it.
Not every time this issue is being solved by just going out and meeting new women. I think before you do that you first need to figure out what was the exact issue (from your side) that she dumped you.
After knowing that then you will have to put some real effort fixing that issue (which yes could include meeting new women, but it depends exactly on the issue).
Share some more detail. When more specifically you started noticing that things got out of control for you?
Give some data - how old are you, how old is she? What kind of experience you had with girls before her.
I'll try to help out.