I used to be the biggest flirt, i'd flirt with girls with looks to kill, friends, coworkers, ugly girls...

I just never flirt too much anymore except with a girl i'm really interested in (rare) and i have a hard time talking to strangers. Im a very confident guy, i know for a fact i am. Women used to come so naturally for me.

Now i cant clear my mind, my responses are slower, im not as witty, i get all amped up to talk to a girl then im just caught dead or find a lame excuse. Im recovering from excessive alcohol abuse and i think maybe that has some effect. I dont have anything to be depressed about, i live life, i love life,
I socialize a lot. I did however go through a bad breakup, i wasnt really all too miserable because i bounce back quick to most situations but I liked her a LOT. Never found a girl i liked so much. It didnt really hurt self esteem but I dont know if that has anything to do with it.

I just dont know what has happened, any ideas? Thanks for tje help in advanced!