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Hi guys,
I am brand new to the pick up game and I basically want to start of by improving my inner game.
I have low self-esteem and lack confidence as I often don't feel attractive and this is something I obviously want to change as I feel it really, really limits me. This is however something I've just not been able to get over in years.
If anyone have any advice or can recommend any good programs/books etc for improving inner game it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!
Do you lack confidence and self-esteem everywhere, every time, with everything? Are you not confident enough to order coffee from a stranger? Was your self-esteem too lacking to raise your hand in class?
Confidence does not exist in a vacuum. We make this mistake all the time but there is no such thing as "I am or I am not confident... period." The most confident and accomplished violin player will shit his pants if he gets thrown into a UFC Octagon with a fighter. So be a bit more specific. In which situations do you think you lack confidence and in which situations do you feel comfortable?