From my experience, most Christians have a very close-minded belief of Jesus. My parents are very much not cool with me having sex outside of marriage... I prefer to be more open-minded about my sexual beliefs. Some of the following fallacies I have encountered throughout my life come to mind:

Potential Fallacy #1) Jesus Christ never sinned and sex is a SIN. He was crucified in his early 30s and was a Virgin
Proof most Christians give: "It says it right there in the Bible... Sex is sin, verse blah blah blah AND blah blah blah"

Potential harm this caused me before I discovered pickup arts: I was shameful of having sex outside of wedlock and was shunned by my parents when I attempted to have sex and/or even date girls. Why do they call it wed"lock"? Because she basically owns your ass... I was ashamed to masturbate too. This was a very bad belief for me to cling to.

Potential Fallacy #2) Jesus had no children, not even with Mary Magdalene, "the whore" ...
Proof (bullshit) most Christians give: There is no record in the Bible that Jesus fathered any children.

Harm this caused: I was told if I ever had a kid outside of marriage that I would be basically excommunicated and exiled from my family. This is pretty fucked up, because sex feels good to me and as much as I love my parents, they are fucked up for not letting me live my own life.

Potential Fallacy #3) Jesus' mother, Mary, had him through a Virgin birth
Proof: duh.... it's in the Bible

Harm this caused me: my parents taught me from a young age that women are fragile, innocent creatures that are to be "respected" at all times. I grew up throughout many of my teen years shallow, weak, nerdy, introverted, believing that no girl would ever want me for my cock and balls.

Solutions:
1) Jesus probably got some lovin'. Get it in your head that sex may be sinful but feels GREAT and if you doubt this, remember this rhyme:
"Sex is evil, sex is sin, sins are forgiven, so let's begin!"

2) Biology tells us that sex is designed to reproduce offspring. We should not have to feel horrible when birth control fails (i.e. the condom breaks) and we end up getting the "baby daddy phone call" from a girl we spermed inside months before. A multi-thousand year old book and belief system should not con us into guilt for reproducing...

3) IF Jesus' mother DID have him without a father around, stop trying to guilt trip us into believing that all girls are innocent. I don't believe that for a second...


I was raised in a very fear-based Christian household. If I stepped out of line, my parents would threaten me verbally, physically, and spiritually. We were taught to fear God. God's wrath was ever present. If I fucked up in school, I was punished severely. Then about college, I discovered open-mindedness... A lot of my friends were having sex and I started exploring girls more. Problem was, I would tell girls, "I'm waiting for marriage to have sex" and naturally, they would run the other way.

One girl used to sneak into my dorm room and give me hand jobs and suck me off. Later that week I got scared and told her I just wanted to be friends to try and salvage my virginity... She got PISSED and dragged my whole bedsheets, comforter and pillow out into the dorm hallway with me in it. I was drunk and tired... trying to sleep for my early morning classes. I had it ingrained so deeply in my belief structure not to fuck girls before marriage that I clung to my virginity. Your dick has a mind of its own though...

I started sleeping in the girl's rooms and being a man whore. It felt good. I started reading about different Eastern philosophies and discovered Tantra (Tantric) yoga. They seemed to have a much more positive view of sex. Then when I was 20, one of my girlfriends and I were fucking like rabbits and she said to me one day, "I am pregnant." I asked her how she knew and she said she just knew. I freaked the fuck out with joy and fear thinking how my parents were going to exile me from the family.

Soon after that, I read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and learned a whole new area of life. I didn't have to feel bad for wanting sex. This Community really opened my eyes up. If I got Oneitis, I would simply go out and FTOW (Fuck Ten Other Women).

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