I feel something is going to happen which is going to destroy my confidence. I'm 32 and I'm starting to notice my hair thinning at the front, at parts you can see the scalp. It looks like soon my hairline is going to be halfway up my head with a patch in front of it. I'm really worried about this because I'm still single and I'm having enough trouble as it is, this is the last thing I need. I've just purchased a product called Spectral UHP which has got good reviews on Amazon, maybe if I deal with this early I can reverse it.

I want to hear from some of the older members of the forum who might have gone through this. How did it affect your self esteem? Did you see a difference in amount of female attention you got? And most important, are there any products which work?

Mine is going on top, thin in back, and I'm starting to take shit for it. I also have some hair on my back. I tell people it's starting to fall off my head, roll down my back, and stick to my ass.

Andre Agassi was bald, shaved his head, and had one of the hottest chicks on the planet. Women aren't with guys because they have hair. Find a do that still works for you, or shave your head. Keep your confidence high and your attitude right and this is a complete non issue.

I have never once heard a woman say "but he is losing his hair." It's not the loss of hair that is unattractive. It's the insecurity about it that is unattractive. Keep that in focus and this will not affect your game at all, except for with the 21 year old girls who don't have a fucking clue what life is.

I have this one rule about hair. Growing bald is not a choice, but being bald is (I think I got this from Mystery). If you go bald, go Vin Diesel style. Or Bruce Willis, Neil Strauss whatever. And combine it with facial hair.

I've suffered from alopecia since I was 14 and I don't have a single hair on my body. ANYWHERE. No eyebrows and eyelashes either. It's been a rough road, but I'll make a long story short: it used to crush my self-esteem for about 2 years, but then I stopped giving a shit.

It's not bad once you get used to it. I'm 19 now.

Best tip EVER: Shave all of your hair off your head. I didn't do it when I was young (duh, of course I didn't), but looking back it would've been much better.