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PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 11:55 pm 
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During my work on approach anxiety for the last few years, I had
both the pleasure and the displeasure of working with guys from
all over the world.

One of the first things I ask guys when before I lead them through
my anxiety elimination technique is: "Why do you want to eliminate
your approach anxiety?"

Some guys tell me it's because they want to have more freedom
to choose the kind of girl they want for themselves, some say
it's because they want to have fun and just meet a lot of women
and some say it's because they want to find the "one".

Uuuuuhh.

I know, the one - the "forbidden" concept in the community.

Anyways, there is a point in the technique where I need to
put a bit of pressure on guys and put them on the "edge" so to speak,
just to see how they respond to me.

And this is where things get really interesting...

At this point, I observe what guys do and tell me.

And the usual response to me pressing them a bit
is them getting very dishonest and trying to feed me
with the b.s.

Khhmm, I don't think so...

Which brings me to the point of this post.

The REAL reason you feel approach anxiety.

It's not because of your fear of what the woman
might do...

It's not because you don't know what to say after
that hi...

The reason is because YOU my friend, are a
manipulative, scared little bitch.

Yep.

And I'm not talking about that moment when you want
to approach a woman... No my friend, I'm talking about
you in general.

The way you live your life is as a manipulative, scared
little bitch - or as I like to call it, a sneaky little prick.

And let me break it down exactly HOW you are living it
this way:

- You're walking around trying to not bust many balls with
people
- You're trying to manipulate your way into getting "only" what
you want - and then leave
- You're trying to invest the least amount of effort and get the
MOST amount of results out of ANYTHING
- You can't be real with anybody - not even to yourself about
how things really are, so you hide behind petty lies and excuses
- When around a woman, you're trying to manipulate your way
to getting something from her
- When around men, you act submissive just so you don't intimidate
other men


So what am I saying here?

What I'm saying is, my sneaky little pricks, if you think you can get
the woman of your dreams without becoming an authentic, no b.s person
when it comes to YOU, there is no way in hell.

If you think becoming successful with women without becoming REAL with them
and stopping the manipulation...

No way in hell...

If you really want to get the "one" or become uber-successful with women in
general, you need to develop the AUTHENTICITY about what you want to do,
about who you are and about your intentions.

Manipulation and pure faking it doesn't work.

So the reason for your approach anxiety is not the anxiety - it's YOU.

You need to become a better version of you.

But the problem is that you probably aren't even aware that
you have this sneaky-prickness disease.

You don't see it with your eyes.

And that's what makes the problem all the worse.

Techniques and tools do have it's place - but only AFTER you become REAL
with yourself, and you give up the sneaky-prickness.

So go to work on yourself, and stop searching for the magic pill - it doesn't exist.

O and by the way, please don't try to contact me or get in touch with me
if you're a sneaky little prick, and you don't want to change.

To your authenticity,

Phantom

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 12:23 am 
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Nice man.

I share your opinion and disgust.

I always say... keep it real. Some people find it hard to be real to someone, let alone to themselves.

But women will see through that incongruent mask very quickly. There is hardly any more pleasure in life than walking around being true to yourself and keeping around people that like what and who you actually are.

True freedom comes with it.... and success with women.

Keep it real


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 11:39 am 
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Agree with a lot of that phantom. I think a lot of it is not being confident enough to let people see the real you, so you make up small lies to make you seem better. But then you either make up more small lies, or that one small lie gets bigger and out of control. Far better to be open and honest in the first place; and more often than not, if you say something honest in a matter of fact way showing that you don't care about it, then other people generally won't care about it either. It's only when you get embarrassed about saying something that other people prey upon it and make you feel even worse.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 11:23 pm 
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So true.

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