Hello everyone,

Although I have been quite successful in the basics (meeting women, attracting women, sleeping with women), I am stumped with a particular trait of female behavior...

In my education for psychiatry (which, in my country of the Netherlands, entails 6 years of college in Medicine,and then 5 years of specialization in Psychiatry, in which I am still participating), I have found countless ways of explaining human behavior. All that makes this "game" even more interesting (especially from individual to individual).

My issue arises from the following: almost consistently, every woman has stated that she: "usually doesn't fall for a guy like you".
Now, I'm notoriously bad at analyzing my own relationships (whereas others' relationships are my job), I would like to know if anyone else had that experience, and if so, if this is a good or bad thing.

(Details: I notice women fall for my brain and its accomplishments (eg, written word and music) and not for my body (which is, by all means, average))

Sounds like it could be a neg. But it might also be an inadvertent compliment. A lot of women date complete losers whom they call "bad boys", so when they finally date a psychiatrist they find themselves saying "I don't normally date guys like you." because you are successful and career oriented.

Also, some girls will be drawn to bigger, brawny, husky guys, then when they are with a thin guy they'll say "I don't normally date guys like you." Meaning guys of your body type.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Are you analyzing these girls when you go out or after you start meeting them?

By all means, brother, never be the girl`s psychyatrist/ psychologist.

You are not there to listen to what she has to say to a shrink; you are there to fuck her hard and make her fall.

Often times women say things they don`t really mean, what I`m saying is that you should learn to stop giving so much importance to what she says, and look better at what she feels.

Dude, STOP THINKING!

Seriously man, you're gonna give yourself a heart attack, trying to understand life so much. Sometimes life can't be understood, you don't know all the data points, you can't create models. You need to accept that!!

Life isn't meant to be analyzed, it's meant to be observed! Since you don't have scientific basis for analysis, observe without thinking and gather a general survey of what life is.

I phrased this scientifically because I think that's where your mind is. You think you are being logical but you really aren't. Start being logical and never analyze, focus on now.