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PostPosted: Thu Nov 15, 2012 1:57 pm 
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if any woman show me interest ı start thinking her . ı dont want Emotional Involvement any girl ım nice guy ı dont want care womans ı just want fuck and go but ım emotional sensetive ı dont know how to deal with it any advice ? my outer game is perfect but my inner game is suck ...

edit: ı want to be fuck machine ı dont want to be emotinaly needy/clingy nice guy ı dont want go cinema with gf ı dont want write letters etc. ı just want a fuck girls like a machine but ım emotional person ı cannot control my emotion :S womans manipulate me :S


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 1:01 am 
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this is the wrong mindset.
dont be a fuck machine.
and i dont believe that your outer game is perfect if your inner game is terrible.
Your outer game will only be good as long as your inner game is good.

what you want is to build connections and develop your social skills and improve your life.
Dont think about fucking at all.

its the journey, the triumphs and falls, the skills you learn, the conversations you have, the improvements you make that will get you there.

Dont be a heartless emotionless person who only wants to fuck because that is very wrong and that mindset will make you weak.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 5:51 am 
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This used to be a big issue for me,

When you set such a high perceived value immediately on a woman who shows interest right away, they subconsciously get scared that they can't meet this value that you give them, they run, they ignore you, they do what they can and declare you "creepy" to protect themselves.

In your mind you just have an inner voice telling you the negatives, therefore you believe these negatives, such as you will never find the right women, or no woman likes you. These mindsets are things that lead to excessive drug abuse and suicides because people can't get the endorphin's that regular "happy" people can get.

Find more important hobbies to keep you busy

You need to start thinking about your life more, what can you succeed at without women in your life. In fact, what women are holding you back from succeeding at. Your time shouldn't be wasted on making women happy, but for women to make you happy. Let them prove themselves to you. Men are the choosers, girls are there to be chosen and to chase after the acceptance that you won't just give away.


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