One of the biggest advancements in my game was when I realized that I don't have to take into account everything a girl said or did. Back in the days when I was a chode and learning game I used to take every word that came out of the girls mouth as a logical feedback for myself. So if a girl would say "I have a bf" I used to take that to mean "I can't date you". Little did I know I was wrong. After having more experience with girls I realized I was utterly wrong. I realized that girls never mean what they say. They will want to hook up with you but say they have a bf. They might want to have sex wit you but say they're don't want to hook up etc... After I realized it I started to look at girls like silly little creatures. I just perceived them as playful and not serious at all. I remember one of my first times experimenting with this I came up to a girl standing outside a club and put my hand around her neck and said "you look fucking hot i had to meet you" she started saying something like "I have a bf sorry he's right inside the club". After she said that I started to get into my head a little thinking she's not into me or something. But I quickly got out of my head by recognizing that she's not serious and took her comment as silly and continued what I wanted and said to her " Tonight is a special night for us, u ready,I am gona be james bond and ur gona be my future wife we gona take a flight to vegas now and get married and roam the streets until morning" and from then on she started to giggle and I was fully in control of the situation. From then on all I had to do is lead play around with her and be dominant. I made out with her and she left her bf in the club and came with me. We roamed the streets till 5 AM and then she took me to her place we had crazy sex and I keep in contact with this girl till today.

Now every guy has these kinds of challenges on his own level. For me it was realizing that the bf excuse was not serious but rather silly. For other guys it might be if a girl says she has to go, or I don't give my number away or whatever it may be. But the cure for this is to realize that girls are silly and to stop taking everything the girl says as serious. Girls are far less logical than men are. We men use our logic to deal with situations. Woman use feeling and emotions to deal with situations. So next time you guys find yourselves inside your heads think of the girl as silly and don't take her serious.

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Great love it! Both advice and stories. Really good i'd say for beginner and advanced guys

You can't take anything a woman says at face value. I learned this early on in life from my mother. A lot of what they say is just a pointless distraction, or a lame attempt at influencing you to do one thing or another.

Girls with boyfriends have their boyfriends with them, or they say "Get lost loser" and don't give you the time of day no matter what you say to them. If she sits there and talks to you for half an hour at the club, and mentions she has a boyfriend, then it's probably not something you need to take seriously. Remember, when a girl says stop, that means keep going. When a girl punches or scratches and screams, that means stop.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Girls that would say things like "get away" or girls that were more aggressive even if they would like me and want me I would ditch them because it really not attractive to me to be with a girl that has balls. I don't let that effect me and look at it like she was really dumb and create a funny picture of the situation in my head.

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"