There is this girl I work with who I like and we went out about four times two initiated by me and two by her. The last one we had dinner in which I suggested that we eat at a certain place but when she confirmed she wanted to go somewhere else in which I agreed because I had never been, and plus I thought it would be a good experience, also she was late because she wanted to take a short nap after her work. Since I always tease her and call her by a pet name and I bought a small cheap toy related to it, and some candy in which I gave to her during dinner. Now during dinner I didn’t notice any indications of disinterest and we had a lively chat. After dinner we went home but no kiss or anything but I did during the evening make small physical contact in touching. 30 minutes after arriving home she texts me and said that she was flattered that I was attracted to her but she sees me as a coworker. I responded to her the next day and said that I was seeing someone else and we could be friends. We work at the same place but in different offices, and her apartment is one floor below mine. I have moved on and am seeing other girls but a few times she has initiated contact after I had went into NC which is difficult to do because of working together and living locale. We have texted but not very often maybe three times in the past few weeks and they have always been short. What can I do to turn things around or am I doomed to the friendzone forever?

It sounds like you still want to bang her, and she remains somewhat interested still, although you did not sufficiently escalate the last few interactions. (no kiss...nothing much at all).

Try this:

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And then start over...but follow through!

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She was shit testing you, nothing more. And you handled it perfectly by telling her you were seeing someone else anyway. That is why she is still contacting you again because you passed her shit test and she now wants to fuck. Man, this is a prime example of what happens when you do the right things. It works!

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Yeah, if she is still texting you, then she is interested.

Next time you're out with her, start the date early by saying something like this:

Hey, I just want to say something before we get going tonight, because I want you to know something. Then when you have her attention, say "nevermind. I just want to enjoy myself with you and have fun tonight."

It will eat at her because she'll immediately think part of you wants more from her, but she won't know how much or what exactly. This will create some tension. You'll make her want to hear you, she'll want to feel whatever it is you were going to say will make her feel. Lead her a little where you want her to go, then pull back. As long as you make her feel something when she is with you, you'll have her attention. Women want to feel. There are 2 people for women. People who make them feel something, and people they talk about those feelings to. Unless you want to be the latter, make yourself the former.

great advice! this will no doubt help me in the pickle im in that i posted about, thanks! also sorry to intrude on the conversation haha!

"People who make them feel something, and people they talk about those feelings to"

So true! That's why I always recommend giving girls mixed signals so that they become confused and need advice. Then they call their fat girlfriends up on the phone after you fuck them and talk for like 3 hours straight about their feelings.

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Thanks for the replies and will take your advice in escalating things. I will keep moving forward.