So last week I watched a movie suggested in a post here, "Spread" with Ashton Kutcher as a PUA of sorts named Nikki.

In the movie his character is told "We're not having sex..." or something like that. His character narrates something for the audience to hear

"When a girl tells you you're not getting any, before you ask, before you even try, you're getting some."

I thought that was great. As luck would have it, I was told twice this week "We're not having sex". But I didn't let it phase me. Instead, I made the women feel like they were the only ones with their minds on sex "I haven't even tried yet" is what I said last night. In both instances, Nikki was right. Both were f closes that night.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_akR9vhc ... ata_player

Cheers!

We're not having sex is just a perfunctory statement that a girl who wants to have sex with you will say in order to feel like she's not a slut. It's part of the ASD. Sometimes it's also a shit test. And remember that with shit tests, the response the girl seems to be trying to draw out of you is actually the opposite of what you should do. She's testing to see if you get all frustrated and AFC about it, because then she'll know you just wanted to smash and dash. I think it's safe to file this one under "When a girl says no she really means yes."

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Lol
When I was younger, I used to take that seriously, then I could almost feel tension and disappointment coming after I backed off from flirting or sexual advances, thinking it was respectful of me to do so. I would got confused when the girls then lost their interest in me. Ohh how much I had to learn!

When I changed my mind to view it as her playfully saying, subtextually, 'catch me if you can' then it actually became a fun challenge and I was able to see the whole point was mutual enjoyment.

Then, once, a girl told me "I get the feeling the next time you get laid it's gonna be with me"

The exact opposite experience. Kinda blindsided me. Fun stuff eh? What a wacky world and journey this is

To be fair, if she says we're not having sex, you'll probably get laid. If she doesn't say it, you'll probably still get laid. If she recites the Gettysburg Address...you'll probably get laid.

What she says doesn't really matter as long as your game is right.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn