The Concept of Leagues/She's too good for Me?



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 7:09 pm 
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Is there such a thing as "leagues"?

Every time I see a beautiful woman, I instantly think "why bother going up to her if she's too good for me?"

How do I break this pattern?

I was once told in elementary school that this girl I liked was "too good for me". What does that mean? How do I become "good enough" for hb10's?


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 7:19 pm 
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How do I break this pattern?
1) By going up to them. The strike rate for girls you don't approach is zero.
2) By working on your inner game.
3) How do you know they are too good for you? Who says? You're not a mind reader.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2012 12:35 pm 
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It's not that they are actually too good for you. It's that THEY believe they are too good for you based on their perception of your value, which is a reflection of your looks, attitude, and social status. The best way to increase your value is to actually have more value. This can only be done by self-improvement and to a lesser extent, faking it till you make it.

They say the neg is used to disqualify yourself from hotties so they don't immediately write you off for hitting on them, but I think it also serves another purpose. The neg is a way of DLV'ing the women, thus lowering her social value which makes you more appealing by contrast. And a lot of the frames pua's use are based on that same concept. Getting women to seek your validation and making yourself appear as an authority figure in which they have to impress. If you try to approach and interact with a 10 and fall into her frame, show's over. Because most hot chicks have this frame that they are the shit and ALL men have to impress the shit out of them in order to even get the time of day. Thats why 9s and 10s can be harder to game than lesser women, because you not only have to run your normal game, but you need to break them out of that frame as well.

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