| The word prejudice is most often used to refer to preconceived, usually unfavorable, judgments toward people or a person because of gender, social class, age, disability, religion, sexuality, race/ethnicity, nationality or other personal characteristics.
That's the definition in wikipedia. I post this cause I'm very prejudgemental on attractive girls. When I was a kid in school, I was very lonely, other kids were mean to me, and the girls looked at me with that typical "you weirdo" look for no reason.
The point is, every time I get to meet a nice looking girl, I feel threatened, and therefore get quiet, nervous, and defensive. This kills all possible attraction.
I know it is not AA because I can feel the difference. With AA I get able to handle the situation, but in these cases I just go into AFC mode.
What do you guys think about this? Any way to overcome or control this?
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