Im a fairly confident guy who can jus start talking to gurls without comin across as straight hitting on them.. I usually use the simple "hey, how u doin?." to open, then move right into commenting on something about the situation.. If she responds in a positive way, ill take it further with some humor & try for the # at the end.. My problem is not bein able to close at the end.. Is there any confidence building/ risk taking techniques out there that i should practice so that can translate into taking that final step & closing??. Maybe things that will get ur mind to reframe from succumbing to Pressure & seeing things to the end?? Anything like small exercises i can try out that might get me to subconsciously just finish without thinkin about it??. Any help is appreciated.. Thanks..

I think you should do more visualization of the entire scenario, seeing yourself playing it out to the end over and over until it feels like a habit in your mind.

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Yeah ok, this sounds good.. I usually think of what i might say or how i predict it might turn out, but yeah maybe visualizing it to the end with exact quotes could do the trick.. Ill be trying this out over & over.. Thanks..