Watsup guys Im still relatively new to PUA and still on the level of an AFC.

-My goal is to be able to go out to any club, be able to approach the woman 'I want' (have a bad habbit of trying to impress my friends by going for or showing off woman that I feel they would be impressed by).

-To be able to approach without hesitation, bullshit pick up lines or tactics on how to get into a conversation in a sneaky way.

-To be completely congruent without any second thoughts as to what the girl or the people around me might be thinking.

-To give up my pathological lying to impress others

- Last but not least to have the balls or confidence to go into to any situation (be it a club, gym or restraunt) without a wingman and find my princess for the night.

So far since starting pickup iv managed to get some decent momentum although its still on AFC level. But recently iv experienced a dip.... Last night when I went out I was extremely self concious, so much so that even when a milf eye sexed the crap outta me I was to nervous to make a proper move! I immediately started chatting to my buddy to get his thoughts on her. Once we were inside the club we just stood by the bar looking around like a bunch of twats. Then my wingman an I started to notice some 'mafia type gentle man' eyeing us out. To be fair we could've just been noticing things that weren't there because we were looking for excuses to bounce. But needless to say we were outta there with our tails between our legs. now I want to know first off about some great ways to get 'the confidence pumping' before going out and secondly what are some things I should be doing to make myself 'ICE' as tyler puts it.

Book recommendations are welcome and any lifestyle habbits that are effective will be tried and tested.

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Sure.. I remember when I first started, it was a bitch in the beginning but I had a hunger to get good so that helped me meet women very fast... got laid within the first 3 months of doing it with plenty of dates in between. One thing you should remember is never let rejection (or what may seem to you like rejection) get you down. Bounce back from it by using positive self talk. For example, if a girl down right rejects you and you feel like shit as result of it, tell yourself, "It's OK. I still think I can get any girl I want, cause I have what it takes to succeed with beautiful women " Also remind yourself that all women love sex. That'll get you seeing them in a new light, one that will help you get laid more.

Sorry no books.