So, last night I went out. Got 5 numbers, danced, kissed some girls and I was just about to leave when I saw one last girl I wanted to talk to. I went to her, started talking and just when I was about to finish my first sentence (yeah just 5 seconds talking to her), a guy came in front of me and said that I should stop talk to her or else we were going to fight (but then in a pretty intimidating way ). Now, I have been in other moments like these and after he said that, I was totally amoging that guy, even with his friends who were totally cool, but he kept saying that he wanted to fight me (Btw she had a boyfriend, but it was not him) and when I was about to leave he kicked me against my legs. But the problem is; that everytime someone threatens me or attacks me physically, I kinda want to hurt him... badly... Now, I don't want to murder him, but I really, really want to hurt him badly.
So, got any advice, tips, how you handle situations like these?

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Willem

There are two ways of fighting:

One is with your body, your arms, legs, etc.

Other way is when you look the other guy in the eyes and you send the messege you want and will enjoy killing him, hurting the shit outta him.

Next time don`t lower your guard, and stop limiting your desire of hurting the guy, show that to him in your face.

You`ll se a very different result.

Men like to win, so I'm sure a pride hit like getting kicked in the leg sucks. But when it boils down to it, you're getting the girls as he isn't, right?

I have the same problem man, sometimes they pick up on the amoging. Never allow yourself to be bullied but never be the 1st guy to throw the punch. You should never have to stand up for yourself physically, but if your wit ends up provoking him rather then throwing him off just dodge, then hay make him.