Okay.. I have to say 2011 was a year of massive change and struggle. I lost 22lbs and replaced them with 22lbs of muscle. I learned salsa, boxing, kick-boxing, launched a professional blog that is getting me lots of media passes and freebies and potentially a side career.

I developed and enriched my lifestyle.. I also sat and started studying a-lot of stuff for enriching my inner game.

I did this all on my own, while living in almost isolation, I kicked out my pessimitic and AFC friends of mine which really wasted my life on bullshit..

It was a hard road and the last 3 months really opened doors for me as I am studying alot of PUA content and inner-game more seriously thn ever. Especially after I met one of the wingmen here and have been sarging alone for the past couple of months.. I never took the outer game seriously until a couple of months ago.

Now I feel more confident than ever and I manage to give women and people more eye contact than ever and manage to start conversations with many strangers and approach much confidently than ever. I feel cocky and proud of myself, really.. I notice how some women passing by give me looks I never got before.

Though I am stuck at some points that are running in my mind and I thought I'd get a 2nd opinion about it:

1. I live with my parents and i'm 24. I cannot afford moving alone and I really enjoy living with my family. I buy them groceries, pay some of the bills as to know I am not dependent on them in anyway. Regardless, I would like to stay with them and believe I can run my life just fine and save myself some money on renting a full room, with exception to the case of meeting women and having to take them home..

2. I dont want to drag myself into an endless game in which I end up banging and seducing every chick I meet.. I am getting into the game further and I really dont want to end up experimenting with other people's lives and drag myself and others to a relationship roller coaster.. I want to be seductive and a PUA but I want also to be subtle and not promiscuous as I get tempted at times.

3. I am still struggling with figuring out ways to stop people dead in their tracks and talk to them during day game.. I usually approach people that aren't moving or are busy checking out or observing something.

4. I am still finding ways to figure out how to say away or resolve confornations with AMOGs and Jerks as there is plenty of them and I really dont know how to deal with them properly yet.

5. I want to build a personality that will allow me to attract positive, productive and brilliant men and women into my life.. My social circle is poor and weak.. I know I need to strengthen it as to better advance with my life and careers.

I'm in the same exact boat. I will be turning 24 next month and will be graduating college (finally) this semester and moving to Washington D.C. on my own not knowing a single person. My social circle was shot a few years ago when I took a year off from college and moved away and I've been too busy in my tough major to make new friendships and keep them going.

What I've been doing so far was starting small like your doing. You made massive changes all on your own. As have I. (I lost 25 lbs and will have a 6 pack in another 10, joined clubs ect.)

I'm just starting small. Maintaining eye contact, smiling, (sometimes that opens up an approach) and just approaching or starting small talk with hot cashiers and stuff. I'll try an approach here and there at the bars.

I've also been doing a lot of online game. You may want to try that. I've had 3 or 4 dates in the past few months and one of them didn't work out in the long term but I met a lot of her friends so sometimes it can work.

But overall I'm in the same boat and was wondering if other guys had any advice?

How did you find your wingmen? I feel that's what I really need is a wingman to go out with and force me to do approaches.

So far I've been all on my own and it's easy to psych myself out and wander around a bit.