Ok so I have been in the game about 9 months now. It has absolutely transformed my life, but I am trying to take myself to the next level now.

I have been hanging out with a natural and one guy non-natural that know exactly what they are doing. It has forced me to push myself to limits i never thought were possible. Here is the problem, I keep getting girls that I develop a one-itis for.

I start caring for them and sure enough i lose what should have been a pivot, or just some girl to practice on. I am not sure what is really going on, but here is my theory: For some reason my inner game isnt developed enough to where now I think these girls are right on my level. But what I should be thinking is that these girls are below my level. These girls are 7s and 8s and I think i could be doing better. Maybe its just not a belief I have.

This is the second time i got one-itis in the last month. Maybe the solution is to just keep going out. More and more, till i got two or three 8s and 9s and it wont seem like a big deal. Thanks for reading if you have any advise or support help me out!

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-Supern0va1

I'll tell you now the biggest secret I ever learned in pickup its very simple. Don't have an agenda! Just approach a girl with no mindset whatsoever and say whatever is on your mind and don't expect anything. This is the best advice I ever got. It's extremely hard but will make you super confident and will make you yourself instead of a technique robot and most importantly you will have fun. You see "one-itis" happens when guys have an agenda and expect something from a girl. When you have many girls in your life and expect nothing from them you will feel so much better. The way to get there is like you said by keeping on going out and gaming girls. But from now on game girls with a mindset of no agenda. Good luck.

- Amazing Art -

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

Thanks bro. Ur right. I came back down, a bit and I realize its bigger than just one girl. Also, i realized its not enough to just have a bunch of options. I have to have a bunch of options that i view as close to my level or value.

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-Supern0va1