Alright.
I want to get the best out of me and the life I am luckily given, and I couldn't think of a better place to come to and actually start, than the PUA Forum.
I Encourage you to read this and enjoy the process of your given help in making me a better person and PUA! -> I am putting a lot out there about me for you to help revamp me.
I want to turn myself into a boss and I want people to notice it.
So, Im 5 ft 11, Skinny as shit, black hair and brown eyes, quite good looking (been told) but always questioning myself. Quite popular, better outter appearance than inner game. Question myself and feel lonely a lot, and rely on a lot of friends to keep me going, sad I know!
I disagreed, but my friends always said I look like this guy, Jay Baruchel, when he is shaved and not that long hair. So you get the idea, something like this with no such long hair at the top is me (my hair is often gelled up):
http://www.stars-portraits.com/img/port ... -manda.jpg
Although, I wish I did look like this:
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-NASCxZR1CW0/T ... 18_400.jpg
Situation: In University, on a soccer scholarship, in America, from England but lived all over the world.
Quite Low on Confidence for some reason, always seeking approval from others
For some reason attracted to drama, love the shows that entail drama (The OC, Vampire Diaries (thats right, I admit it)
Fasion Sense, currently pulling off the bad boy look, Dark Jeans, sometimes white shoes or black shoes, White or Black V neck with a Leather Jacket, thoughts on that?
Accusations: Friends say I attract drama, Hate to admit it and always deny it but maybe I do? Feel needy and always want to be center of attention, say I put other people down because I want to make myself look the best.
Tools of communication are PC and a Blackberry (anyone good at game and want to offer direct advice give me your pin, i've often or not helped out a lot of people here but this time im seeking me)
Live on Campus, many girls, some are good looking, some are not, as usual.
Splitting this into two, what advice and opinion is offered on the points made? Especially on outwards appearance.
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Goals:
To get girls turning heads and notice an improved outter game and appearance straight of the bat for me
To have a mysterious game (I am very flirty and I do have good game, always negging girls and abnoxious sometimes not caring what other people think)
To have girls texting me and many options in girls and have them texting me
Remain in control and stress free
Go to the gym and transform this skinny body into muscle, put on weight (although I find it impossible)
Get over this girl who played me, or get her to want me more than ever.
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Situation: May be in a current state of oneitis, me and this girl for a month were fooling around. I really started to like her, her witty comments and confident appearance... She had a boyfriend. Still she said I was special, the only one, and I believed her and put all the other girls on hold and gave her everything. One drunken night we fucked, she ended everything with me because she felt to bad for the boyfriend. I remain attached and still pondering on what could of been. Opinions?
Basically I want to improve my lifestyle for the better and have it continually improving, personal stories or advice is needed and recommended
Your motivational words or experiences will be appreciated as I do want to transform myself
I figure, one who doesn't ask for help, will never receive
CHAT
