I got the looks, I've seen every seminar of David Deangelo, Tyler Durden, Mystery, and some crappy pua summit seminar, all though I did learn a lot from the first two, I still can't approach girls!!! I can talk to any stranger I want no problem but when I see a cute girl my heart sinks and I just can't do it. I've been out for 30 hours total so far just walking around and barely talking to anyone. I think this stuff is for people who already have a social circle or people who are extremely lucky and live in the city where they don't have to worry about seeing them again because it's impossible to do it by myself with zero support. The thing that kills me is I'm not expecting anything out of it except for self esteem and not caring what people think about me. People told me this would help me be confident and I believe it but I have walked around wanting to approach girls for so long and it's only getting me depressed knowing that I failed to talk to a cute girl once again. So my question is, is it normal to go through this?

you can't approach girls maybe because you were just in seminars and not on in field bootcamps :)

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Read 60 Years of Challenge.

It's something else. Too bad you wasted your money on shit like Mystery Method..

The first step is the hardest, that is practical experience.

so.. go out with a friend, give him $100/£100 wherever you are from of your own money or an amount that you feel is more than serious enough you dont want to loose.

Tell him that for every girl you talk to, he will give you back £10, any left over he can keep the rest. Even if you talk to just 1 girl it's money well spent imho to help on way to fixing your self-esteem issues.

Hell you can even make a routine out of it and use it to open girls up seriously who gives a shit if they dont want to fuck you, you will NEVER know if you dont try.

Haha I like that it interesting. You ever try it yourself bro?

Aye I have, generally tend to avoid giving advice on things I haven't done/experienced myself!

It's not good to have your knowledge surpass your experience that much. You end up beating yourself up for doing it wrong all the time. So yes, feeling frozen in place is typical.

You should cleanse your mind of pick-up stuff and start back at the beginning. The information isn't meant to be taken in all at once. You've probably weighed your mind down with concepts that aren't relevant at the skill level you're at now.