Women are different than men.

They have this amazing ability to FEEL how we FEEL.

They can actually do that.

Isn't it amazing?

And what does that mean for you? Well, it means that if you feel like "shit" than she will know that and no matter what you say she will just turn arround and leave.

This is what I mean when I say INTELLIGENTLY persistent. Not you do you have to be persistent, you need to do it inteligently. If you're in a bad mood and you try to do approaches with your bad mood, nothing you say, do or try will work. Everything will suck.

You need to learn a couple of things.

1. Getting into the right mood that is right for you
2. Letting go of rejection that you got and keep going
3. Once you let go of rejection getting back into the same mood and manufacture your optimism.

Denis Waitley, a guy who made a programe called "WINNERS" said, that winners can manufacture their optimism.

And I didn't really know what he was talking about untill I was once out and had like 10 girls in a row reject me. And they really pounded me down harsh. I was in a bad mood and that was the reason for it, but I knew that If I quit for the night and just call it "not my night" than I'm not getting any. I was tired of calling nights like these "not my night" and I started to do the unheard of. I started to LIE to myself.

I was like: "Girls just love me tonight, they're all over me" and "I'm the man, they really love me"

Writting this is easier than when I was doing it. I was really broken that night and I really had to squeze my teeth when I was saying this. But eventually, after a couple of more approaches I started getting success. Girls started to respond differently.

I was surprised at this and did some research.

The reason behind it was in my ENERGY.

I put my negative energy into deceisivness and agressivness (not the one that turns out into a date rape) and that was attractive to girls. I was angry and humiliated, but I said: "Fuck you with your bullshit, I'm tired of this" and I just defied my chances. I was BURNING with PASSION that came from the rejection they gave me. I was angry, but later turned that anger into firmness and deceisiveness.

It worked.

The parts of a good inner state are these:

1. Energy
2. Detachment A.K.A Centerdness
3. Sexual confidence
4. Worth awarness
5. Intent

1. Energy

As I said, if your energy is low, people will not want to be arround you. Women will feel it and go away from you.

What do you think of somebody not doing much, being bored and looking arround? And what do you think of a group of people with high energy, having fun, partying and making a lot of noise? We people are just magnetically attracted to energy. That is why when it's sunny day you see a lot of people outside. Sun has been connected with energy from the beginning of time. Girls, women like energy. If you have a lot of energy, they can feel it. If you have low energy, no excitment and boredom you will automaticly repel them. So raise your energy level. Become a person with energy, find out how to have more energy.

2. Centerdness

Do this. Look straight infront of you. Start breathing into your stomach and make your stomach fat when you breathe in. See your periferal vision (vision in width) and get in touch with the part of you that knows where you're going and doesn't care what other people think. Breathe in a little bit more and feel it. How do you feel?

If you center yourself daily it will get into your habbit. And if you're totally centered when you go out, women will just be magnetically attracted to you. They will feel it.

3. Sexual confidence

Ever had an experience when a girl would start talking to you and you would just shit yourself?

Huh?

If you had, than it's probably because you haven't had much sexual confidence. Sexual confidence is that feeling that you know inside yourself that you can make a girl feel great. That you can give her orgasms and that she will have an experience with you that she will never forget.

When you have it and when you speak with a woman she will know that you are different than other guys. She will be interested in you no matter what you're saying (keeping in mind the rest parts of inner state)

4. Worth awareness

Sometimes, more often times than not guys will make the girl the most valuable and the most important in the moment. When actually, she may be beautiful but she can't possibly be more important than you. YOU are the most important person in your life, not her. She is just joining the ride, she's comming on board on where you're going.

That is why I recommend having a list of qualites that make you valuable and worthy. If you feel worthy more than her, if you really feel it than she will feel it too, remember. And than you can be nice to her, but it will be different.

5. Intent

I could say that intent is always eighter give or take. But in case with women, you can have a desire for a woman and wanting to take her, to "get some" but with a strong sexual confidence that you also want to make her feel great. She can feel your desire for her, your lust if you will (tasteful, no drooling on her ) and she can see in your eyes that you want her. Again, still being centered and detached from NEEDING HER.

if you feel like you NEED her, she will RUN AWAY as soon as possible. Maybe this is not easy to understand, but try to make a difference between needing a woman and having a strong desire to take her and give her the pleasure she wants.

Make sense?

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