Has anyone else noticed that when it comes to some girls (that you're not trying to game, just girls in your social circle) and some guys who are bitches, that they try so hard to be the center of attention? If they give you no attention one day where they don't need to [try] USE you and the next day they are out with you in a different setting where you have the highest social proof in your group, they will give you all the attention until they have reached social proof for that day/moment. Everybodys competing, some unconsciously, some consciously, and it's kind of an ugly truth. Instead of respecting each other and having fun (for the most part) people are in a constant battle with each other.
At the end of the day social proof and social dynamics doesn't define anyone, except on a social level. Ever get the feeling.."why bother?" sometimes? I mean it requires alot of undermining and deceiving on a base level but on a face level "everything is ok." It's kind of silly the games people play. I suppose you have to play though unless you want to find some new friends with their own DHV and not people who feel the need to prove to themselves so much that they aren't of low social status, so much so that all they do is play games all the time.

This is my observation. Have you got any thoughts on this?

Yea i have noticed this before. There is a few people I personally know that come to mind. After studying social dynamics, and psychology, people kind of make me sick at times.

Yeah, i've noticed this a bit as well. Its vital to be confident in yourself and your purpose, to be constantly framing and re-framing so that no matter what happens, no matter what's said, you're still unshakable - particularly when someone tries these games out on you.

A lot of them are easy to see, some are more subtle. Its also good to take a step back fron over-analysing people and behavious though. I listened through Carlos Xuma's power social skills audio stuff and for weeks afterwards was analysing and disecting every single interaction I had looking for some sort of slight or offending comment. My conculsion was that, although people play games, they're generally just following a set of social cues provided by you, them, the interaction and the social setting. Don't let it get to you too much, be happy and confident in your approaches and you'll begin to not be as unnecessarily suspicious.

That's a good perspective.

You gotta remember, a lot of this stuff is unconsciously motivated. Girls don't go out and say, "hey, I wanna be the center of attention and bag me a high status guy", they just do what their emotions and instincts tell them to do. So if a girl is being a bitch to you, don't get angry, just acknowledge that her unconscious instincts are making her do that; she probably doesn't want to be mean to you any more than you would.