its not whether you win or lose



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 9:50 pm 
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lol i was just thinking, for the people who are really new to this, think back to when you were little and when you wanted to play a new sport, your dad would tell you "its not whether you win or lose, its whether you had fun" and well, being a guy, when guys are usually pretty competitive, i found that to be completely a lie lol like when you play a sport, you gotta win, but this is the one game where this statement stands true, with the game, it actually isnt whether you win or lose, your just trying to get better and better, people put way to much on the line when theyre first starting out and think k if this doesnt work this whole thing doesnt work, shit, but if you played your first sport and you messed up, it wasnt the end of the world, you probably even got better from the experience, well this is exactly the same, except even less is on the line, your not letting a team down, its nothing, just think no matter the outcome you get better and better until evantually yo can choose WHOEVER you want, and it doesnt take long either so dont be thinking damn ive got alot of losing to do, because its definately not like that


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 6:12 am 
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I am pretty new to this. I don't look at the game as win/lose. If I try and keep expanding my comfort zone.

I am winning.


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