Been dating a girl i really liked/starting to love for a few months but had to end it on Sunday. I dont know if it was a front but she was ok with it and havent really had any closure since we didn't really talk it out.

Before I met her i was killing it, had made some big changes to my life and was absoloutley loving life. I was pulling better girls and more frequenly than any other time in my life. Point being i was doing extremley well, and thought my inner game was solid.

Fast forward until now and i feel like the wind has been knocked out of me, lost my mojo, havent even really had a sexual thought since we broke up. I dont want to ever feel like this again. Anybody know how to re-develop your inner game after a bad breakup? I feel like ive lost so much progress and i just want to get back to where i was before this relationship. Ive been hitting the gym again so hopefully that will help and will be going out tonight and will probbably run into the ex. Hopefully my hear wont feel like its exploded when i see her. Please any advise is very welcome! Thanks in advance.
Carmo

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~Carmo~

I'm right there with you my friend.. I have found it's really a progressive journey with a cumulative result. Takes seconds to shatter the confidence but a long time to rebuild it. However it does compound...

Set some quick basic personal goals.. achieve them...

Go out, chat up some 4's - 7's..

Disregard ex... (don't be where she is) do not let her destroy any more of your confidence..

Spend some time with your other female friends..

Throw some money at the situation.

- Buy some new clothes
- Whiten your teeth (srs)
- get a hair cut
- Be "free'er" financially when out..