I recently was doing great. I had great self confidence, I was being smooth with the ladies, had tons of friends, everything was going amazingly well compared to me a few months ago. I got the first girlfriend I had had in over a year, and that was a huge boost of confidence for me. However I had to break up with her just a few days ago, and every since I seem to have lost my mojo. I'm almost as bad as I was before I got into PUA. I am dull and boring again, I have lost confidence and conversation skill, I'm basically and AFC again.

Is this common? Is it a temporary sickness or am I gonna have to start all over? What can I do to help myself?

You don't have to be in "state" all the time.You don't have to do something all the time.All you experience are bad thoughts about yourself,nothing more.
Might help :
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I understand completely where you are coming from. Its funny because I broke up with a girl that I really liked, almost loved. I felt broken because I seduced her so much and she still cheated on me with a past bf when far away from me. But I noticed that it had nothing to do with me. It had nothing to do with my deficiencies, it had to do with her insecurities and her past. But, I learned that I have to get a hold of myself and learn not to blame someone else's errors on me.
A great solution is getting yourself another woman, one that you seduce and make urs. Once you notice that you can do that, you will get that confidience you once had. And notice that you do not need the woman for validation, just know that you are valuable enough to get what you want. You are just out of practice and once you start again, the road may be difficult for a while, but once you get your rythem back you will excel again.
Trust me, expose yourself again and you will succeed. Good luck man.

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Really... don't sweat it. You haven't actually lost anything, you will find that you have times when you feel you are on top of everything and completely untouchable, and a week later you may feel the way you described in your post. No one feels invincible 100% of the time. Life is never constant, and you can get that fleeting feeling out of nowhere for no certain reason sometimes, and it seems an especially common occurance right after a relationship has ended, no matter the reason for it.

Remain focused on yourself, and the psychology that began to transform you from AFC to master of your universe originally. Revisit some of the material/instructors that you felt an affinity with and provided those "Ah-ha" moments for you. It is also important to remember that this is just in your mind - you haven't lost anything, you are still a generation ahead of where you were when you started... and that these feelings are temporary. I assure you, even the gurus have them. Just another learning experience, and once you've gotten through it, you will be even better equipped to deal with in the future.

Good luck and happy hunting

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You guys were right. It's been a little over a week since the breakup, and I think I'm finally getting my energy back. Today I was at my peak performance. I felt great, talked to plenty of girls, and just had an enjoyable attitude all day. Also, I just started gaming a new HB.

Thanks for the help!


Ethan

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Awesome man it's good to hear that... even though you already seem to be good to go, lemme add this: Once you've already made that original transformation, then even during your 'downtimes' if you look around hard enough, chances are you'll still spot evidence contrary to what your negativity is telling you. That's a good tool for getting your mindset back on track even faster.

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