Hey, This isn't actually my first post I usually post under another username, to keep my identity hidden I'm using another name.

Basically my biggest insecurity is my hair color, I have red hair.I'm not ugly I have a nice face and body, like girls often approach me in clubs.Just I had to grow up with the name calling that goes with having red hair, I was never bullied just even good friends would slag me over the red hair.This does and has affected my confidence.
Even with good looking girls approaching me I still feel the same.
People actually mistake my hair for been brown alot of the time because it's a darker shade of red so at nighttime or say in a club it looks brown.When girl's approach me in clubs I always think to myself "she doesn't know I have red hair".

I have what I would call "situational confidence" sometimes i'm very confident other times i'm nervous and shy.
The main anxiety I have is my hair color I just can't get over it, society has me conditioned to believe that girls hate guys with red hair, even though this isn't true it still fucks up my confidence alot of the time and it's affecting my game.
I don't want to dye my hair another color because I think in this situation that will be a beta thing to do and I don't want to have to explain to girls why my pubes don't match the hair color on my head.
I spike my hair SPAM.. was thinking about a new hairstyle, any advice on how to get over this insecurity would be appreciated alot, it's seriously holding me back.

Ask yourself; How do I know for sure that girls hate guys with red hair and find them less attractive?

Now affirm this to yourself everyday for as much as you need too.

Affirmation; I am changing the belief that girls are not attracted to guys with red hair.

Or; I want to change the belief that girls are not attracted to guys with red hair.

This shit truly does work. I have used this affirmation technique on my limiting beliefs also and I have to say I am definiteley seeing results. Do this for a month to go along with any other negative beliefs you have about women or yourself. State your affirmations in the "I am changing the belief that (Insert belief)'' Or "I want to change the belief that (Insert belief)". Try this out. It has been the best method I have found anywhere to destroying your limiting beliefs and I have read and saw alot of shit. If you do this for a month your belief will be gone. You will no longer believe that thats a defect in you. It will no longer limit you. Now imagine yourself without this belief. How would your life with women be different? The choice is yours.

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Cut the shit, time to fuck.

you do know that its reconed by the science community that unless red heads start breeding among each other they will die out in 100 years. it could help you score with fello reds.

a strange thing with me--im dark brown but had a grandmother who had red hair--but red haired women usually come on too me--i dont usually meet many but when i do they naturally seem to select me as if they can sense that i have some sort of red haired gene in my DNA whic i do but how can they sense it