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Hey guys. I just got introduced to the pickup community about two weeks ago when my friend loaned me "The Game". I read it and it opened my eyes to an entirely new opportunity. I looked up PUA forums and this looks like the best one out there.
Anyway, about me, I believe that I have (correction: used to have) reasonable natural game. When I was a little I was always the the center of attention, always the funny kid. I used to love to get in front of people and entertain. But that all went away about 6th grade. I started a new school and decided I wanted to be known as "the cool kid" but I had no idea how to achieve this. Basically what I wanted was a girlfriend, and I thought I had to take on this stereotype in order to get one. So that started me down a bad path of drugs (which I no longer do) and insecurity where I eventually lost my sense of humor, I became shy, introverted and scared to death of anything with high heels and a bra.
I thought I was just screwed until I read the gane. It opened my eyes to the hope that I may actually be able to recover and get women. I am serious about getting my inner game set straight. I am actually going to do the newbie mission today.
(I have a friend who is into this stuff, but he is a natural and can't really explain things like an unnatural PUA could. But I do have a wingman.)
I have had some success with women before I lost my personality. I have done basically every sexual thing you can do with a woman without actually having sex. (The one time I came that close I was dealing with some LMR and I didn't know how to overcome it.)
So here are my goals:
I do not wish to become "the number one pickup artist in the world" or get my own TV show or anything like that. All I want is to learn how to attract a reasonable amount of women, get four or five lays, then settle down and engage in a serious relationship. After that I should be self sustaining, I should be comforable in most social situations and should know how to attract pretty much any woman I desire when I go to college or the military or whatever I decide to do after high school.
If anyone has any advice or tips for me I would love to hear them
You are not alone here in the goals. In fact many Puas think along the lines of attracting, experimenting and settling down eventually. It isn't really about going after unlimited lays despite the occasional marketing hypes, and in fact prostitution and escorts are better option if you just want unlimited sex. What determines a good pua in my opinion is how many women you can attract and what kind of women you can attract.
CHAT
