| Hi guys.
I've been dormant for a while, and with good reason.
Most of you can relate to the following; in that NOTHING I did seemed to be working.
*I would tease, neg, and try to get some momentum going, but nothing seemed to accumulate; I was running on dead energy. I had no idea, and I noticed I went from initiator to "Quiet guy on the stoop".
*I talk to others, and seemed to always have a nagging thought or two at the back of my head. "They don't like me"; "I'm an idiot", "Blah Blah Blah". This killed me.
...and some other crap.
I've actually talked to a guy I knew from work who's good with women. We get along very well, and talk about most of the same things (He even knows about record labels such as Global Underground, Renaissance, EQ Recordings, and other major name dance labels I am a fan of).
...I owe my life to this guy. He taught me, in 23 minutes, how to become king of any crowd I go into.
The following...simply works, and is not up for debate. Do it, and YOU WILL SEE results. I went from normal guy to celebrity in LESS THAN AN HOUR (I kid you fucking not. I kid you fucking not! On my dead grandmother's mausoleum grave, I kid you not, and swearing is baaad).
First off, when seeing this, assume it's right, and that any other preconceived notions you have are wrong. What you're about to read is simply assumed to be true, and that it works. Anything else...simply DOES NOT work.
Ready? Here it is:
-People like people who like them. That's it.
If you make an effort to socialize with others, good or bad, AFC or PUA, people will like you.
-Don't think. Thinking is for the classroom, not getting pussy or making friends.
Thinking, according to my friend, sends you to cloud land. When your in cloud land, people get pissed because you have no interest in them. Most people who think and dwell on things are subject to isolation, rumor mill targeting, and upright ignorance.
-On top of the above, ALWAYS STAY IN THE PRESENT.
But, he clarified the meaning of staying in the present. It's not merely "Oh, I'm currently in the middle of a miserable job", or something. As of right now, your life is neither good nor bad, it's just your life. You can CHOOSE how to see it by staying in the present. Right now, I am typing this post, and I feel good, because I choose to feel good. There are over tens of thousands of bad and good thoughts I could be having right now, but I choose to live NOW, and live HAPPY NOW. That's it. Don't fight it.
-When your in your "present moment", maximize it.
Don't overextend or try too hard to get attention. Whatever is in your immediate proximity (2-3 feet), maximize it in terms of a HAPPY PRESENT NOW MOMENT. Right now, I am typing my post, and I feel great. Right now, you've reached this point of the post, and you're going to read this RED TEXT and be happy about it, because now, you're hear reading the misspelled word of "here" as "hear". But who cares about that? Now you're at this sentence, feeling fucking great. And now you're here, at THIS sentence, feeling GREATER. And you're feeling better and better, as you read what I just typed, and you're going, and going, and going, and you're fucking feeling fantastic, and this sentence comes to and end.
And you're right here.
Get it? If not, don't go back. Finish reading, then, you DECIDE when you want to read it again. The point is living in the moment, right now, right at this moment, with a smile.
You may die soon. You may die 100 years later. Who gives a shit? Death is a fact, but so is a positive present reality. Be good, be happy, fuck hot women, have your gold crew, excel at your job, follow the rules 100%, work to help others, and fucking be good. Be a good man.
THEN, once you've got your PRESENT MOMENT down, start re-reading PUA techniques.
Most of us (ok, 99% of us), come from a frame of hurt, negativity, and pain. IT DOESN'T FUCKING EXIST MAN! We choose to be. I'm not beating down on your past struggles (I was a socially awkward jock; I'll tell you right now, that's worse than being a typical loser).
I DON'T GIVE A FUCK! Right now, I am the fucking man, because I believe in myself. I don't need other's approval, because if a person is trying to nag or berate me, THEY'VE GOT PROBLEMS, not me.
This frame of mind, taught to me by my friend, is required before embarking on any social adventure. To have friends, one must be a friend. To have sex with many women, one must be a sexy guy. To be the king of the crowd, one must be the King a crowd can love.
Do not fight the truth. Do not debate it. Faith.
Faith in all. Faith in yourself. Faith in your fellow girls and boys. Faith in faith itself.
Just believe in all that is GOOD, and reject all that is BAD. It's not that hard, yet, it's the hardest thing in the world.
You can choose how to see it. I choose "Not that hard".
You should choose it too.
The deconstruction of the ancient being
The reconstruction of the Neolithic God
That is the process. One must die before they can live.
One must go through the fires of hell before reaping the fruits of heaven.
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CHAT
