ok, its been like 5 months already and i cant stop thinkin about oneitis! I've been flooding my mind with shit like "i dont care, i dont giva a damn, i dont find her attractive, she is not special and so on" Distracting my self with stuff when i started thinkin about her.. We are in same class at school. In school i ignore her as possible, but still some random talks ( not me starting them) Everything was going great, for 1st time in my life i was feeling happy. I was goin out with other girls, i've felt the difference in me, i was better at everything, untill today. I again started thinkin about her, i've tried to distract my self with music, it didnt work at all! It got even worse... I've been reading some stuff in the forum, about what we want, who we want to be, that we have to be clear with ourselfs etc and i've become clear to my self, i want her... i cant lie to my self anymore, its killin me inside. Before those 5 months she gave me chances but then i was so afraid and fucked them all, then everything start falling apart... I dont have fear now, but its late now. I wish i could go back in time, beat my self up and put some thoughts in my head. I'm really confused now, i know im better, but all i want is to share with her. I dont know what to do now, im back at the start, even before the start... You guys 've been here?How did you pass it? Can you give me some advices or something? im at the middle of nowhere and i donno where should i go...
Thank you for reading.

You need to find a way to get some closure. Once you feel like that part of your life is done, you'll be able to move on. So you can either go in there one last time and show her everything you've learnt here. Or you can give up, stop going after her and move on.

Regardless what happens, you'll learn from it. You tried to approach her a bunch of times and fucked it up. So don't let it get to you anymore. The worst that can happen is she tells you its too late and you move on with some closure. Just cause you're ignoring her doesn't mean she'll notice you've changed. You've gotta go up, talk to her, neg her, tease her, w.e.

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That is the thing about pu it can really mess you up.Oneitis is just another word for love but people like mystery dont want people to experience love because then that means you will stop buying his product. People like mystery have decided to replace the word love with "oneitis".

mate, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.

I think most guys with oneitis know how u feel. Here read this.

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